Would you continue in the relationship?
2007-09-17 05:11:06 · 11 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"It's better to have loved and lost . . . "
"An unbroken heart is not yet wise"
But how do you know you've come to the end of the road, hit the wall and just had enough?
And how can one predict the future?
Yet I'd rather be alone then in an unhappy relationship;
to be alone does not connote loneliness.
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2007-09-17 10:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
In truth we do it all the time.You can care about someone and want them in your life but all thru the relationship you truly know its not meant to be.Its sooo hard to say goodbye.When its true love its unconditional its pure.You dont love to be loved back or have a time line for things you just love.You dont put a condition or have doubt about it when its not even over.You just love..If that makes sense.I am currently in a relationship that is very iffy but do I love him yes.Do I think I will get my heart broken already have kinda.Do I continue on yes.Because he is the one I see holding my hand.He is the one I see in a tux holding me in my gown.He is the one I see resting my head up against and knowing the heart my ear is hearing beats for me.Are they dreams yes but in this every day life I think we need them.I think other people would say dont waste your time or move on but if your hearts in it and you have hope well then dont try and change them just learn if you can live with who they are.Who knows you may not get your heart broken you may find the love of your life.If it comes easy you dont cherish it anyway as much as you would if you work at it.Good luck
2007-09-17 12:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by jt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yesss!
I believe that in any relationship, the journey is what matters, not the destination. I'm sure that in the duration of the relationship I've become happy. That's what really counts.
Even if the relationship heads towards a break-up I would not regret ever having entering into it. As they say, "it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."
2007-09-17 12:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by 123mantobeat456 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Chewy's answer is really to the point! Also, I know heartache and if it was kicking me in the face I'd back away and give the relationship some distance and breathing room.
I'd be very quiet for awhile and observe! The signs are usually quite obvious when someone is sticking it to you and someone else!!!!
....BUT you my friend, are NOT a looser!!!!!!!!!!!
The other person would be the looser!!!!!
2007-09-21 01:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kamp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would. I love who I love, I hate who I hate, and there is no going back once a thing has begun. Its very disappointing when you see people run away from things because there is a potential outcome for pain. I do it myself, but its important to live, love and grow to our full potential, so bring it on!!! hehe.
2007-09-17 12:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends on the reason...if it were some misunderstanding i would try to clear it but if it were a fault of mine i would try to improve myself...
although if it were the fault of the person on other side i would just not let it go anyhow...
if i am in a relationship then he/she must be worthy of it i must be caring abt the person too..
but anyhow try to get to the solution of the problem before leaving it...
2007-09-21 07:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah Parker 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. i have had my heart broken already. and i guess i know what to look out for, so if i see it coming i would just move on.
2007-09-17 20:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, time to get out. It will hurt but time will heal this. And who knows what is out there after this. One door closes, another will open.
2007-09-19 10:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes you shouldnt fear heartache!
my heart could be broken by my loved ones dying and not through any deliberate means.
of course if he cheated that would be a different matter entirely and i would string him up by his ......
but to fear heartache means to fear love and you should never fear love.
2007-09-17 16:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by crunchymonkey 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, If someone breaks your heart once, he or she will do it again.
2007-09-17 12:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by hotneneloco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋