1. Dealing with the members of the religion he/she just left, who would probably not be too happy with said person.
2. Being accepted by people of the new religion, who might not accept a new convert who doesnt know much about the religion.
2007-09-17 04:35:31
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answered by JND 4
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Well there are the family issues.
When faced with conversion, the birth family may feel that in rejecting the religion of one's parents, they are rejecting the whole family.
Obviously this is rarely the case, but emotions can be deeply tied to religion, and generally parents who teach their children a religion are doing what they honestly feel is best.
Within the new religion- I can't speak for the religion of others, but I have talked to many people who have converted to Judaism and observed what they contend with. Even though converts who have completed a conversion are welcomed, it does seem that they have to work harder to 'prove' themselves in the eyes of the community. While this can be seen as unfair, the fact is that converts to Judaism are joining a culture which has been persecuted for centuries, and wariness seems almost ingrained. Additionally, it takes effort to be an observant Jew, and I suspect many born-Jews have a hard time conceiving of a convert who would follow all or even much of the law. Not saying that I cannot conceive of such, only that this may be part of why it seems converts to Judaism must work hard to be truly accepted. I have always had a particular sympathy for them, probably because I remember my grandmother saying so-and-so (someone who converted, for marriage I believe) was essentially not a 'real Jew". This attitude was prevalent at that ime, and still is in many communities. To me, if one undertakes the proper course of study for conversion, immerses in mikveh, keeps the law to the best of their ability, will raise their children as Jews and will identify only as Jews, and is obedient only to the Gd of Israel, they are a Jew. But I've found that some disagree. I would not want to bear the burden of being a convert, the burden is why I tend to not doubt their sincerity.
2007-09-17 05:27:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Your family (parents) sometimes feel betrayed and disrespected, because you've rejected the religion they gave you with all good intentions.
Longtime friends have trouble wrapping their heads around the fact that you believe something different now, and ask a LOT of questions about why you converted. The same questions, over and over, from everyone. It gets tiresome, answering the same questions so many times.
People who DON'T know you very well assume that you've converted because of some person you're involved with. No one ever believes that anyone has converted as a result of his own studies/beliefs.
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2007-09-17 04:38:41
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answered by §αғịỳỳẩ² Ẫ†нэậ†ị 5
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I converted from Methodist to Catholic.
The problems I've faced have been a lack of understanding from my Protestant friends...wondering why I would do such a thing.
I've found myself defending my faith more than I ever did before.
Also, there is just a bit of " not fitting in" where cradle Catholics are concerned. I sometimes get this "she's a convert" attitude from them, as if I haven't had the real experience of Catholicism.
2007-09-17 04:37:28
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answered by Misty 7
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Their parents may feel like they are being rejected. That's the biggest one you have to deal with.
In some religions, people who were born into it may not fully accept the idea of converts. I think that is rare, though.
2007-09-17 04:35:33
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answered by Anonymous
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I guess it all depends on how strict your religion is. For instance some religions will completely shun you and you are dead in their eyes. That is more of the stricter punishments. Some religions will accept you as a person, but continue to witness to you and hope that you return to the faith.
2007-09-17 04:36:31
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answered by Anonymous
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The Catholic church won't assist you to receive sacraments in case you're married exterior their partitions. i don't be attentive to relating to the mormon faith, yet i assume that's a similar. between the justifications that they choose you to marry interior of your faith is because of the themes inherent in blended-faith unions. jointly as confident, you have been shacked up, God kinda could decide to work out you reconciled. on the different hand, you would be breaking regulations no count number what. maximum church homes now require a definite volume of 'marriage training' till now they are going to marry you. perhaps that would desire to be your first step. And interior the period in-between, you're able to evaluate asking your self the place you would be attending church with your toddlers? this is an substantial question. Marriage is an entire distinctive international than 'committed dating'. i became right into a non-baptized christian as quickly as I married my husband who became into raised a catholic. It brought about friction. frequently.
2016-11-14 16:44:12
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answered by ? 4
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Culture Shock sometimes. Making new friends. Feeling involved in the church.
The person just needs to attend often and they will get the hang of it.
I speak from a Mormon point of view since we have many join our church often.
2007-09-17 05:33:58
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answered by Anonymous
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i converted to islam when i was 19. i was christian my whole life. the biggest problem for me was my familt especially my grandmother. she always said why would you change like that you cant be american anymore if you are now muslim, crazy stuff. and always had a fit about covering my hair it is beautiful you need to show it off. and so on. so i believe in any conversion the family is that hardest to deal with.
2007-09-17 04:35:46
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answered by ? 3
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i don't know that i'd call it a problem but the biggest obstacle to overcome would be culture shock. you can convert all you want but when it comes time to put it into practice, i think it could be a bit daunting.
2007-09-17 04:36:16
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answered by racer 51 7
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