Can we allow ourselves to Care about our sisters and brothers without seeking "payback"?

Question

Namaste

Peace and Love

Answer 1

Sounds good to me.

Answer 2

When the world understands that we create our own reality, individually, and as one, and we will understand...(in deeper terms, we already have reached and transcended this), it will no longer be seen as necessary to seek payback.

I am training myself to realize this; if I see in my rear view mirror that someone is tailgating me, I recognize that I am doing this by "sending" telepathic messages to others for my own issue-related purposes, in order to satisfy my anger. There is a constant flow of communication between all of us, so when I repeat "I am doing this", and feel the truth of that realization, I no longer experience the offense, do you see?

There is no need to deflect our own sense of guilt outward, onto others, no need for this universal sense of self-loathing that has effectively crippled our sense of being one.

Once you use the phrase, "...our sisters and brothers", you have allowed yourself to care.

Answer 3

I always do.
For me the result is the "payback"

Answer 4

Yep. There is no reason to expect payback when we do something for another.

Answer 5

The act is it's own reward. The gift is in doing it.

Answer 6

Of course.

Answer 7

Good deeds towards others should be their own reward.

Answer 8

I am an only child.

Answer 9

If you can't you either never will or you will be sorely disappointed.

Answer 10

certainly