My husband and I do not trust each other at all anymore. We have gone to counseling many times. He has had a bitter expectancy that I would stop loving him so he stopped making love to me for 3 yrs...There are so many extenuating circumstances, I would need to write a book. I REALLY NEED prayer. I need wisdom and strength more than ever!
2007-09-17 02:11:49 · 15 answers · asked by Fredreka . 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
you got it !!!!!!!
2007-09-17 02:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have my prayers. I have been through divorse and although it is very hard, and even harder is to get out of habits youbuilt within the marrage.... the freedom and relief that comes years later is worth all of it. You are not doing either of you a favor by pretending.
May you be blessed with wisdom and strength to end the marage vows you created, and in a harmonious way that you both may remain friends, distant or close, and that you both can build new lives. May Creator Source assit you in moving forward in your life and allowing your husband to resolve his trust issues through another avenue! You both are Blessed and loved. Do the right thing!
2007-09-17 09:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not need prayer , Every day for a month , smile all day , hug him tell him you love him , walk away from disputes , fix his favourite meal , in other words you be the one to take off the boxing gloves , There was something about him you loved , if you can find those things again maybe he can find them as well , if that don't work find a lawyer .
2007-09-17 09:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by MASTIFF MOM 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do Christians really believe that prayer can help this woman??? If prayer "works" where has it gotten issues like child abuse and murder? If you can solve problems with prayer, for pete's sake start praying that all the missing children in the world are found safe and that the people who harm children quit doing it!
2007-09-17 09:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I pray the Lord to give you respite. That you find peace with your decision. That you have done everything required of you first and that the final result is as God would will.
In Jesus name Amen
Now go read Proverbs Chapter 3
2007-09-17 09:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is the right thing to do, you will end up doing it.
No decision we ever make in life is wrong, for various reasons. There is always a positive and negative effect for all actions!
You will get through this just fine...and know that we're all thinking of you!
Good luck sweetie. =)
2007-09-17 09:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you a Christian, dear ? Did you try to show your love to your husband ? Do you have common children ? Did you try every ways to avoid a divorce. He is not right I see. Try to show all your love to him and if after that he shows that he don't love you ( sex is duty in family life ), you are free to divorce from him.
2007-09-17 09:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by georsh50 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got it.
What would create the lack of trust?
Those issues are the ones that need to be addressed.
God will do His part, but we cannot delegate back to Him that which is our responsibility.
Hang on, don't quit.
2007-09-17 09:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fail-safe prayer is for the Will to be done. To thine own self be true. You can "fall" in love so logically you can "fall" out of love. Love "IS" our very nature and it can only be shared. To not share Love is a denial of the Love that you are. If you are not growing, you are stuck!
2007-09-17 09:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by Premaholic 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Yes, prayer is needed.
jtm
2007-09-17 09:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Divorce him. It's probably best for both of you.
2007-09-17 09:22:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋