I always seem to end up with guys who seem so serious at the start and at the end they get tired of me or they find another girl...
2007-09-17 01:30:17 · 19 answers · asked by terra 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 21.. i know i look younger but im really 21
2007-09-17 01:46:14 · update #1
yo be loved first we must make ourselves lovable, nurture others and ourselves without concern of finding a reward, only than we will have become lovable and get the reward of being loved. u just haven't met that special one yet, and the ones u are meeting want different things from life than u do. be the type of mate u desire.
2007-09-17 04:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Impossible to answer without more info from you on how long your relationships last, how old you are, that sort of thing.
This tidbit is something ive realized through friends that are girls, that they miss out on.
If you have sex with a guy you like, right away after starting to date, you will not be taken seriously. 9 times out of 10 a guy will look at you as not worth it in the long run.
Dont know if thats your scenario, but keep that in mind for the future.
2007-09-17 08:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rick R , Super Duper Samurai 侍 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impossible to answer without more info from you on how long your relationships last, how old you are, that sort of thing.
This tidbit is something Ive realized through friends that are girls, that they miss out on.
If you have sex with a guy you like, right away after starting to date, you will not be taken seriously. 9 times out of 10 a guy will look at you as not worth it in the long run.
Dint know if that's your scenario, but keep that in mind for the future.
2007-09-17 08:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by SHEIKH SUBHAN 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should broaden your horizons ....maybe its time for some growth. You might be putting in all your time looking at guys and not developing yourself. But, I will say, you look pretty young so you might be at an age where kids, in general, are not ready to settle down with anyone. Dont get too serious too soon about a guy, this might be running them away and you might be coming on too strong ....and....the best thing a girl can do for herself is DONT BE DESPERATE.
2007-09-17 08:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by skyward 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
r Are you putting out to much of your self , sometimes a guys "the real ones" like a women who keep some things a secret about herself, just be who you are the right man will come along , remember a good man finds a good women, just make sure that you a doing good , IE living your life, taking care of you, holding you self accountable, just keeping self in check. never accepting what you see, and feel of taste with you eyes, or your heart, look deeper, search deeper,never never take the first thing that comes along, if your search is the same place,every time , Its time to change that cause look what you have gotten, you see it does not work, "right" so just change up you search patter. good look,
2007-09-17 08:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Reginald H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the average relationship for a young person lasts 6 months. I don't think there is anything wrong with you, I think it's just the way dating works.
Don't focus on what is wrong with you, focus on how to have fun with your friends. At the end of the day, the best relationships are based on fun.
2007-09-17 08:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by Fancy That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it IS something about you - but there is not enough info here to know exactly what it is - you LOOK extremely YOUNG.... ask yourself these questions - -
Am I sleeping with them way too soon?
Do I seem interested in what they do, who they are, and where they are headed?
Am I friendly or TOO friendly?
Do I have interesting things to say or do?
Am I usually open to conversation or am I reserved?
Am I flirty around him or with his friends?
2007-09-17 08:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a guy myself but i must say the first answer to this question concerns even me
its a shame that its gotten to the point that a good woman is judged by wether she puts out or not
but alot of chicks is total sluts cuz they believe they have to put out to get a guy
stupid bitches
2007-09-17 08:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some young guys are like that, your meet someone who sticks around. Just give it time
2007-09-17 08:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not others but you are the person who is not taking others seriously.once you are serious in your business and relations you will get reciprocal responses.wish you success and happiness.good luck hope you will find happiness
2007-09-17 08:37:55 · answer #10 · answered by madhavan n 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋