I am in a very happy marriage, my Husband and I couldn't be more blessed.
I dream at least once a week that my Husband leaves me. In my dream he usually meets someone else and leaves me for her. I freak in my dream and just cry.
This is not a concern that I have. I don't worry about him leaving me at all. I am secure..
Thank You...
2007-09-17 01:16:48 · 6 answers · asked by Heather 5 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
The funny thing about dreams is how dreams are connected to your mind. The mind in general uses dreams to process thoughts and feelings that you have and things you experience while awake. The mind in general also sometimes does not distinguish between reality and fantasy, especially while you are asleep, and this explains why you can see the strangest things in your dreams.
So, when you apply this to your recurring dream, this can explain that part of it is just that it is indeed just a dream, has no basis in reality and is just your mind processing things, in this case your relationship with your husband.
In reality, you have considered different situations in your mind when awake and how you would deal with them. Affirming and reaffirming your love for your husband is just a naturally occurring event in your happy marriage. So, in a way, in your dream, this could be just your mind "reminding" you how important it is to maintain the relationship between the two of you.
2007-09-17 05:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by endpov 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity is the first thing that comes to many people's mind. However, in your case, there are few possibilities.
1. Trust to your self or him. - you may not trust yourself in some aspects of life. Projecting him leaving you shows that you do not have full confidence in you.
2. Need for more attention - That means whatever he is giving you is not enough. Subconsciously you want more, projecting his leaving show emotionally you want more.
3. Proud ego - There may be some proud ego in you. In other words, projecting him leaving may move you up in a spot that you feel you are important. It may seem not needed in some sense, but actually you subconsciously want to compare with others. That may also contribute the reason you dream aobut it.
2007-09-17 01:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that deep down you are worried about him leaving.
That doesn't necessarily mean anything. It's hard to come to terms with things going right sometimes.
It might not always stay the way it is now though, and that tiny bit of doubt can eat at you.
Unfortunately, that is just part of life - there isn't much you can do about it, except keep from dwelling on it, and work to make your life, and that of the people around you as good as possible.
2007-09-17 01:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not knowledgeable at all about dreams, and I believe I can't since I almost systematically fail to remember my own dreams.
I'm pretty much interested in psychology, in revenge. This is on this last basis that I find your dream easy to explain.
Since you are really in deep love with your husband you are just unconsciously afraid of losing him. As many, you have often heard of divorce, and early divorces. As your husband please you so much, you think obvious that many other women may attempt to seduce him.
I'm pretty sure about that.
2007-09-17 01:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by Space Bluesman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone dreams a dream ever 90 sec.
2007-09-17 02:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by BRYAN M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a matter of ur unconscious mind.
May be you think much about your relationships.
Nothing to be worried.
2007-09-17 01:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by Rip Van Winkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋