I am 18 and i do not think i am bad looking but i dont think i am beautiful either. The problem is guys see me more as a friend then anything. I hunt, fish, play football with the guys, hike, watch football, i love carpentry, id rather have a beer then wine or some shallow drink... i basically do all the guy stuff. So i am a good friend but they know they have someone who can understand them also. But they dont seem to see me as more then "one of the guys". What can i do? I dont want to change myself tho. PLEASE HELP!!!
2007-09-17 01:13:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u r just like guys and and doing stuff like guy thats why guys dont ask you they want to go out with a gurl so be a gurl too when times are there only for gurl so step forward go on date with ur fav. guy have a good time
2007-09-17 01:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I wouldn't change who you are for anybody. Well, maybe PLAYING football with the guys is a bit much, but just stay who you are. I guarantee you, there is a guy out there for you who will love you for, or despite, all the things you're interested in. Maybe when you show up for these guy things, you should try to dress a litlle more sexy, put on some makeup, you know, let them know you're a woman. Do a little flirting. Someone will take notice. All I can say is this. I wish my wife was interested in some of the same things you are. Life would be so much simpler.
2007-09-17 01:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Knowitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the moment. Keep doing what you are doing. Someday soon you will meet a special someone and you will instinctively know what to do. Let me ask you something. Are you one of the guys becasue thsat is genuinely part of you or are you just doing it to fit in?
If it is part of you, really is part of the fabric that makes you who you are, then don't change a thing. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. However, if something got "broke" earlier in your life and "being a guy" is your way of compensating or coping then get whatever if broke fixed then go from there.
You are young, vibrant, and if that picture is truly you, very attractive. It is just a matter of time before instinct will kick in and you become the woman many men will dream of you will break a few heats, I am sure.
2007-09-17 02:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Cassidy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd unload him asap. If he likes yet another lady and she or he him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? Real love does not play video games or have wandering eyes, it is dedicated and rough paintings. You MUST see this as a crimson flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your younger, i am guessing, you should not also be on account that a SERIOUS dating that's going to motive you lack of confidence. Have amusing, do not grow to be overly invested on this, WHAT? you cannot flirt? Move on, the writing is at the wall and it spells difficulty. Do your self a desire and reduce the fellow unfastened, whether it is destined to be, it's going to run it is direction and he's going to be again. But why you might take him again best you'll reply.
2016-09-05 16:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by zamoro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't change a thing!!! You are obviously happy the way you are so everyone else should be happy too.I personally think the "tomboy" thing is very sexy and maybe your boyfriends do too.They may not want to Treat you like a "lady" because you've known each other for so long.If you really want them to just give them subtle hints and maybe do your hair or something,(not that theres anything wrong with it now).Be prepared though sometimes things like this can sour friendships.I wish you well!!
2007-09-17 01:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by HIGHWAYSTAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont change yourself. You are you, dont try to be someone your not. Just find guys that have never seen you before. The boys you hang out with now have a prenotion that you will be friends and nothing more. So, get away from them and find guys that dont know you like your friends do. Im not sayin dump you friends, im sayin go clubbin one night.
2007-09-17 01:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by AD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like fun to me, i do all the same kind of stuff, getting ready for hunting season,and fish at lease 1 or2 days a week, ride 4 wheeler and motorcycles and take the ladies out for a nice lady type evening
2007-09-18 03:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunt, fish, play football?
You sound like the perfect woman, can I have your email address please?
Don't change!
2007-09-17 01:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by Matt L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you look fine(in that tiny B/W pic)..
And you don't have to change anything. Plenty of guys like you the way you are. Just forget about going out with your guy Friends...find other guys.
2007-09-17 01:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change a thing about yourself. What you might want to do is be a little more sexually aggressive, though; try asking a guy out rather than waiting for him to ask you.
2007-09-17 01:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋