My mum is so fkn argh! makes me want to rip her head of sometimes. I'm a A student. I'm doing good at school. I'm 13 yrs old. My mum doesn't let me do fkn anything! Its like she has no trust of me going out with friends, or sleeping over at friends house or even sleeping over or going out with my closet cousin! She has some issue with my dad side of the family and she hates them. But I love them. She gets angry when I visit my grandpa. She dosent trust me so much that he takes my mobile phones (3 different ones) I use it for emergency use and family. BUT SHE WONT FRIGGING TRUST ME AT ALL!
She always start **** with my dad when his sick and he just had 2 surgery's from his back.
It just makes me so depressed.
I don't feel like a normal 13 year old. Never was and never will. Cos of my mum.
She even has more power than my dad.
I dont know what to do..
*tears*
One day I'm going to explode..
2007-09-16 20:43:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Plus, when she wont let me or out or see my family which i love very much. I'm always on the computer cos i cant go anywhere. Then she yells at me that im on it too much. WHAT THE **** am i soposed to do?! Lay on me bed looking at the ceiling wishing my life would get better?!
She then she goes yelling at me that i talk to my friends too much and talking to them on the phone too much. HEY! they are the ones that most me most, who actually care for me, support me and love me to the end. And my mum is just the oppisite..
2007-09-16 20:46:14 · update #1
I was an A student too and it was tough to maintain it until university days and I didn't have only my papa who was super strict but my mom so I have my lady bestfriend to turn my worries/problem and funny little secrets on crush or admiration.
The best way is to talk calmly, openly and frankly (without losing temper or arguing) and talk about this with your mom.
What I know is parents want and wish best for their kids.
Add more patience and not rebel on this situation and it is best you have a close friend to talk to.
I hope when you have this chance to talk about this matters bothering you with your mom, you'll be able to solve it in civil manner without losing temper or your mom ending in anger or criticizing the other family.
Remember that family can be a pain at times yet it is best to also let them know how you feel and think so they will understand you.
At times parents can be so immersed on their own problems that they tend to run over that even kids (teens) have their own worries to tackle too or share.
good luck and remember... don't explode.
you're a good student and kid.
re: about your mom's overpower on your dad... she must have her past history in her family on why she is domineering. at times people (man or woman) can be full of "blah blah blah" when they cover their own insecurities in life (I have seen this on my ex husband, and a former lady lawyer colleague). They dominate to hide insecurities and be always on defensive side which isn't good.
2007-09-16 21:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by HOPES 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are 13 and can request that you be put into your father's custody. If you really have that many problems at home, ask your father to go to court to get custody of you.
2007-09-17 03:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow that is tough grl i kinda feel u in a way cuz me and my mom dont get along she doesnt trust me as well she has my pc tapped as well as my phone and she has trust issues i mean she might just b looking out for u but wut u need to do is talk to ur dad wen he feels better have him take her to court and get u back so u can b happy again
2007-09-17 03:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by cb 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋