I'm so ashamed Im 16 and me and my twin are best friends i love her so much and we do everything together but when she got a boyfriend she began to spend more time with him and i began to feel left out because every week we promised to go to the cinema together or shopping just me and her and she kept blowing me off for him and i knew he was making her do it and worse he was 19 and one evening i went over to his house and told him to cool down with my sister cos she was always restless and tired he told me they were having sex everyday & thats why she couldn't do the twin things and when i started shouting at him he grabed me and pushed me down on the floor and held me down really hard and he raped me. I can't even bare to look at my twin anymore cos i always think its my fault. but its been 3 months now and she's dumped him and im preg but nobdy knows bcuz i wear lose clothes. and big sweaters. how do i tell my sister? that he raped me and im pregnant with his baby? i want an abortion
2007-09-16 17:19:51 · 6 answers · asked by bonni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get some counseling, talk to you parents, sister, u need to let it out.Report that guy, he needs to be in jail.
2007-09-16 17:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at her previous questions!
I think you are full of it. You are a bored little drama queen with too much time on your hands. If you really have been raped and are pregnant (which I seriously doubt) , YA probably isn't the best forum for advice. Try family, friends, police, counsellors.
If you are 3 months preg you won't be showing anyway. The foetus is the size of a mouse!
2007-09-16 17:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by jess b 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to planned parenthood as soon as you can. It might be too late for an abortion. It is not your fault that you were raped. You need to have prenatal care as soon as possible. They can also tell you there what you can do. You and your sister are very close. Tell her that you are in trouble. Tell her that you are pregnant and that you were raped. See how she takes that before you tell her the rest. I can't believe that she hasn't noticed that something is wrong with you. Good luck.
2007-09-16 17:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you report the bastard, tell your sister and tell your parents. What happened is NOT your fault. You did not deserve any of this to happen to you, and you do not need to go through this alone. Report him, so he can go to jail for what he did to you, and so he won't do this is anyone else. I'm sure once your sister finds out what happened, she will stand by you and will be there for you, and so will your parents. As for the baby, I suggest that you give it up for adoption.
2007-09-16 17:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Shania♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too far along for an abortion. you need to tell everyone, and then go to the police. i hope you get the help you need, and aren't crying rape because you slept with him.
2007-09-16 17:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please start with Planned Parenthood. They have people that can help you with your situation.
2007-09-16 17:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋