2007-09-16 17:05:54 · 13 answers · asked by pit-q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive been involed wit my g/f for a while now and we have talked about everything except sex
how do i bring it up
2007-09-16 17:09:20 · update #1
Maybe kiss her and get sort of in the mood. If you touch her and she allows you and gets into it to it probably is ok to try so no need to bring it up, just do it. If she pushes you away or tells you to stop, tell her how much you love her and that you want to make love to her. Say it is ok if she is not ready, you are happy to wait. At least then she will know your intentions and when she is ready you will both have fun!
2007-09-16 17:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by Stiffler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a thing that you both will get to a point you decide you want, if you have to worry about bringing it up to her and asking, then it is too soon. You should never have to bring it up, it will come out when it is time to in the relationship, until then, keep it in your pants and realize there is more to a relationship then sex.
2007-09-17 00:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel the subject of sex should be discussed outside the arena of the bedroom (or backseat). Ask her her opinion about pre-marital sex, or teen sex. Does she believe it is OK or immoral? and remember birth control....condoms are cheaper than diapers. Even if she is on the pill you should use one....I have two children while on the pill. If you are too embarrassed to talk about it you probably should not be doing it
2007-09-17 00:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by virgokennewick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have done more than kissing, and have been together for quite a while, she should be comfortable talking about it... Just make sure that the two of you are alone, and tell her, you want to progress the relationship further because you love her, and that you wont pressure her untill she is ready....
2007-09-17 00:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bring up marriage first, then actually get married and then you'll both understand that it happens on the wedding night.
2007-09-17 00:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if at this point you cant bring it up you are not really communicating effectively ---- find an intimate moment when you are alone and bring it --- be honest and consider her feelings and dont persist if she backs off --- just open up the window ---- best wishes
2007-09-17 00:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when your c o c k pops up... you've already brought the subject up good luck - ohh yeah use a condom the world doesn't need anymore idiots like you
2007-09-17 00:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask how she feels about it. If she feels it's too soon or not. Let her know that there's no pressure and you love her for who she is.
2007-09-17 00:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So...sex...yeah...
2007-09-17 00:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by deadeye402 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no need to say anything just kiss her passionatly
2007-09-17 00:11:20 · answer #10 · answered by jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋