He is in his mid 30's, I'm 22. We started going out like friends and he hit on me. He has taken me out to restaurants, cool places, for movies and he recently even teached me to play Tennis! I'm poor, so I don't have a enough money to take him out and I need to do my part to show him a good time. I have only taken him to Salsa lessons so far. I like him as a person already, I just don't care about his big, fat bank account (even though that's awesome to me). He is kind of nerdy, he is ambitious, a perfectionist and very youthful as well. I need help with suggestions on activities to do with him, and how to hook him, your comments and ideas will be greatly appreciated.
2007-09-16 16:52:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Picnics are cheap
Go walking in national parts
The beach/ lake/ pool
Muesems/ galleries/ exhibitions
Cook him a nice dinner
Go to a winery and do tasting
um, whatever you like doing maybe you can introduce him to it.
2007-09-16 17:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by Stiffler 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to look away from the fact that he can virtually buy any materialistic item to make himself happy, so gifts are out of the question. Depending on where you're from, the beach is always a fun, or parks, or anything involving nature, you both sound active, so plan an activity to do with him or something, but the key is make him lunch or dinner for the picnic, but make it something that come from you, anyone can make ham sandwiches and a bag of chips, put some thought and effort into it, quickest way into a man's heart is through his stomach.
2007-09-16 17:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by Zoolander 12 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Opposites attract, be yourself, it doesnot matter if you are rich or poor, if he loves you he will not care or expect you to pay or buy him anything,money can not buy love, buy blank cards in "Michaels" craft store make him a nice "Thank You" card everytime he takes you out or he buys you something,this will be from your heart,and trust me he will appreciate it more then you spending money on him cause you made the cards. With the cool weather coming up, crotche him a scarf, if you don't know how it is easy I taught myself and I am poor too, they have books "Crotche for beginners" in a kit with crotcheing needles,yarn is not that expensive,Or you can make him a thing of cookies put them in a pretty tin or even a cake.Go to a museum, it is not expensive.Find out his interest and hobbies then you'll figure out what he is into and take it from there.
Good luck!
2007-09-16 17:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by Hmmm... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
met guy millionaire poor girl ideas suggestions fun stuff
2016-02-02 13:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a gracious guest, my dear. People with money who are kind and considerate, don't care if you have any or not. Just enjoy his company. I, too, have a very rich friend. So what? How to hook him? Whew...what for? Are you a gold digger? If not, then don't try methods to make him fall in love with you. He'll spot them a mile away and drop you. Just enjoy the moment and don't look too far into the future.
2007-09-16 16:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by red 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He met you as a poor girl. that's how he liked you. that's how he must accept you. You can't be acting like you're rich, if you aren't. That will only make you seem kinda fake.
Just be honest with him and tell him that you feel bad cuz you don't have as much as him and you can't take him out to big places! he'll understand your situation if you're honest. and he'll appreciate it.
PLUS in a relationship the guy is da one that's supposed to take the girl out. Don't stress it ! Let him pamper you =]
2007-09-16 17:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by MQ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SWEET PIE, YOU SEE IF YOU DON'T HAVE ENOUGH MONEY TO TAKE HIM TO FANCY PLACES THEN TAKE HIM TO YOUR AVERAGE PLACE LIKE RESTAURANTS IN YOUR AREA, WATCH THE SUNSET AT THE BEACH, SOMEWHERE THAT YOU GUYS CAN HANGOUT AND TALK TO GET TO KNOW MORE ABOUT EACH OTHER AND/OR TO SEE IF HE STILL IS A DOWN TO EARTH TYPE OF GUY THAT DON'T FORGET WHERE AND HOW HE GOT RICH AND ALL. BUT I THINK SINCE HE'S RICH HE SHOULD BE DOING ALL THAT....QLKM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-16 17:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Dongfeng!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go have fun....It's up to him to pay...
You can do special things...to impress him.
If you cook, then give him a list of things to pick up and cook him dinner at his place. I bet he has not even used his stove in his house.
Live free concerts don't cost a thing.
Parks where you can plan a picknick.
Take him to play darts at a pub.
Play pool.
Ask him what he likes.
2007-09-16 17:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by Date Dr. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to sugarbaby.
1. age doesnt matter as long as u guys are adult enough to know whats going on.
and
2. dont play too hard to get. just at the right level. think about it, he has a fat bank like u sed. what makes u think he cant get other women out there?
2007-09-16 16:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by sikondcourtz 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
blast music, come up with games (truth or dare works just keep it clean if you wish but whatever, janga[however you spell it], paper air planes) pop popcorn, then get into teams and have a popcorn war, or try to catch in your mouth, have diet coke and mentos, go out side and conduct experiments with them, play red rover, take the most random pictures, put them on facebook/ myspace/ whatever, and just have a blast!!! thats the best stuffs to do!!! lol =] have fun!!! =]
2016-03-18 07:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋