ok os i've been goin out wiht my bf for two years now..i love him more then anything else in the world...he's never lied to me about anything before but this situation jsut came up were i'm tied down to think he's not telling the truth this time..well one of my friends called and there like omg i'm so gonna kill ur bf he jsut did the stupidest thing.he told (a girl(on of her friends)) that he was gonna break up with me and that he's done with me.so i immediatly hung up and called him...i told him everything and he said if he was he wouldn't tell her and that he would tell one of his friends..and he keeps saying he didn't say that and that i just need to believe him...but idk wut to do..who to believe or who to turn too..please help me.. :'(
2007-09-16 15:18:03 · 12 answers · asked by kkdej89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't over react to this one, really. Believe your boyfriend over girls, and trust him. If he loves you and you love him everything will and should be fine. Don't worry.
2007-09-16 15:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was a guy friend hes full of **** we always ask a guy friend before it to see what they think but if a guy is in a 2year run with a girl with being that far in the relationship it shouldnt matter if he loves you and i mean realy loves you cant be with out you love if not hes in it for something elsemaybe because he thinks i will be with her until i meet some other girl then the going behind the back and the lies get thicker and then some one finds out a few weeks later he slips up and you find out and then your hurt because the jack *** has no since about what a loving relationship is about thats why ive been single for a while now i cant find someone who likes me for me and not because i dont weigh 180 pounds and cant enter a male modeling competionsin most cases i dont have high standerds if some one likes me for me i am in that relationship 120 % and thats no bs
2007-09-16 22:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by robert d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rule of thumb is to believe the person you are involved with.Look at the facts:you have been going out for two years .During that time he never lied to you about anything.Why pick this time to start to doubt him He sounds like a true blue man , one that you are very lucky to have.Please continue to trust and believe in him until you have true and factual information that he can no longer be trusted or believed.Tread carefully here.
2007-09-16 22:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut...... From experience, always go with your gut. There are plenty of jealous girls out there that will manipulate emotion to get what they want. Even if it's your man for 1 hour, and even if it means ruining your current happiness to get it. If you trust him but you have a funny feeling, that's your gut telling you not to believe him. If you have a funny feeling this chick is messing with you and you have no doubt that your boyfriend wouldn't stray, i think you get the point. Another thing is maybe he was drunk and he was babbling and doesn't even remember..........
2007-09-16 22:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by assunta81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st, two years is a long time. Yes he may have lied to u but chances are during this time u got to no him pretty well. If u have that feeling then i wld tell him how much this is bothering u if u already haven't. If he truly loves u he'll tell u the truth w/e that may be. but i dunno. i've been thru this b4 and its torment. w/e i wish u the best!!!
2007-09-16 22:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by Dick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats a tough one i would just wait it out maybe ur friend has a friend that likes him so she wants to break you up and he is tellin the truth or he is lying and you should belive your friend
wait it out it will clear up in a little hopefully
good luck
2007-09-16 22:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by ...... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe your friend. Why the heck would your friend lie to you if she is a for real friend?
2007-09-17 01:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to tell if your bf wants to break up with you.
If you "feel" it...it's coming...cheat on him!!!!! :)
2007-09-16 22:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by alexpasch85 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
time will tell.. Just wait a bit longer.. hang in there..
2007-09-16 22:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by Joanie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i get those problems to um.... i don't know I'm sorry but i don't know
2007-09-16 22:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋