every six months i move from tahiti with my aunt, 2 california with my dad. i've been doin this since i was seven, cuz my mom died, and now i'm 14. now i hav 2 choose rather 2 liv with my aunt in tahiti, or my dad in cali, so i can stop movin 4 good.
how can i possibly choose!
i luv both people,
and both countries!!!
2007-09-16 14:59:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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Vanessa A hudgesen dead!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-16 15:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Herkimer Link 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree... maybe see if you can spend the summers in Tahiti so you don't lose contact with that aspect of your heritage, and spend the school year with your dad, getting the best education you can.
Stability in school is really important at this time. You need the best grades and all the credits you can muster to get into a good college. You only have 4 years until graduation from high school.
Perhaps you can major in something that will benefit the people in Tahiti. Like maybe Nursing and Cultural Anthropology? How about Hotel Management and Marketing? Then perhaps move over there for good?
2007-09-16 15:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about one place during the school year and place during the summer. Get the 2 of them together and explain how you feel about it. Good luck
2007-09-16 15:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Amy R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow... thats def. going to be a tough decison. I think that its one that only you can make for yourself and no one can tell you which to pick. You have to think about who you like living with better, and what place you want to grow up in, where ur friends are, there is a lot to consider.
I hope you can figure out whats best for you.
2007-09-16 15:06:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose your Dad
2007-09-16 15:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by Tiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, i understand that this can be very hard and frusterating but follow your heart, maybe you could even keep movin back. It will be hard but just think. think about everything good about living with your aunt and all the good things about living with your dad, then think of the negatives, think about friends too.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-16 15:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
toughy... you should choose the place where you'd have the most fun and oppertunities you should pick what ever one you feel safest in. Oh sorry about your mom, my grandma recently died and I havent got over it yet...I miss her
2007-09-16 15:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Tara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask if you can stay with one during the school year and visit the other during the summer.
2007-09-16 15:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by urupdateplace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol its not really up 2 us but up to u and srry about ur mom
2007-09-16 15:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's a very personal choice, One that only you can answer.
2007-09-16 15:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ME♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋