I'm just wondering.. if you have sex with a guy on the first date, would he still love you will he still love you in the morning?
2007-09-16 14:55:02 · 27 answers · asked by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not naive... I'm just saying that because about 5 of my friends had sex on the first date and they all got married!!
2007-09-17 01:16:35 · update #1
nah. not unless you give him a bj to. then hell love you.
2007-09-16 15:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
1) Sex on the first date is stupid, and shows how cheap you are.
2) If you think that "love" is a possibility this early in a relationship, you either have no idea what love is, or are very naive. The word "still" is out of context in your question.
3) He may "love" coming back for more of the cheap, free easy sex, but it will not be coming back for you, just what you offer so freely.
4) If this came up months into the relationship, and you still see this as "giving it up to a guy"--as if it is not something YOU really want; the guy does not love you, if he "takes" your offer, knowing it is not something you want, but are willing to do to keep him around, or force him to "love" you.
5) You sound as if you have a lot of growing up to do, lessons to learn, and emotional maturing before you go around having sex with anyone other than yourself. Date, but don't procreate--you should really wait.
2007-09-16 22:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by grapejuice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard question to answer. It depends on the two of you and how mature you both are. Sex is not the most important part in a relationship. Are ou really ready for that kind of step with him? Do you really love each other? Think about it first and then decide. Sex will not keep a man nor will it make him keep loving you. Sex comes a dime a dozen and can be gotten from any one. If he is pressuring you, then dont do it. Your body is your temple and should be treasured as so. Once you give away your precious goods, you can never get them back. Hold your goods and give them to a man that you feel in your heart will truly deserve them and cherish them forever. You have a life time to find that true love to have sex with and if he really loves you, then it wont be just sex, but LOVE!
2007-09-16 22:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Nicety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if a guy is already interested, escalated sexual activity won't change his feelings. If he is on the fence, then he might balk because some men prefer a challenge, or else they might be the scoring type. First dates set the tone for a relationship, and sex can lead to awkwardness at the intial "getting to know you" phase. I personally avoid sex on the first date, even if we're both amenable, just because I want to avoid the insecurity of knowing whether he'll call me later. Of course, I believe that if a guy truly loves you, he will regardless of when you have sex. Just use your best judgment. If you feel more comfortable waiting, then do so. Just make sure you are ready to deal with the outcome no matter what you choose. Also, be sure that you know the guy well enough to affirm that he's trustworthy.
2007-09-16 22:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love does not come within the time frame of a first date.
It really depends on how long you have known someone.
It is possible for two people to love each other after they rush into a sexual relationship, but in the long run it is really better to get to know each other first.
Becoming intimate so soon after meeting can also reduce the respect a guy has for you because you do not show that you value yourself enough.
2007-09-16 22:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by Beth K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual intimacy is another way a man and a woman express their respective feelings towards each other,hence is very special.it is highly unlikely that having sex with a guy on a first date would lead to a long ,committed,romantic relationship.it is considered a fling or a one night stand and both parties are expected to go their separate ways.Will you both love each in the morning and connect,I suppose stranger things have happened.
2007-09-16 22:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He would like you until the thrill of sex wore off, then it is most likely he would not respect you and move on. Even the nicest guys crave sex but getting a guy to fall for you involves making him see you as more than a sexual object (jumping in bed on the first date isnt the way to do that).
2007-09-16 22:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by Roland 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say wait till your married because come on the first date? i didn't even hug my gf one the first date and were waiting for sex. don't just give yourself out like that. if you want someone to love you need to start with knowing the person better not knowing there body. you want him to love YOU not just what you give him that should only be a plus for any relationship. good luck
2007-09-16 22:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by Tozer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a very tricky question. guy might think your a easy lay. but having said that. why as it got to be sex on the first date. if he likes you he will wait. but then sex and love are two different issues.
2007-09-16 22:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will love you until the next one date girl comes along. Guys like sure things... you would be a sure thing and until he finds another sure thing, he'll keep you around. the ones that don't expect sex are the real men.
2007-09-16 22:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. 100% sure thing. In Fact he will love you more in the morning.
2007-09-16 22:02:45 · answer #11 · answered by Micheal M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋