Why is it so hard, to talk to someone in person after you have talked to them online for so long or in a text?
Why is it so hard, to talk to someone in person after you have talked to them online for so long or in a text?
i need advice on avoiding, the ackwardness of not being able to talk to them in person. also, at my lunch table i sit with mostly all guys and my two firends angel and skye. we find it really hard to find something to talk about, because we not all from the the same school or have the same classes. can someone help me resolve this issue too. THANK YOU SOO MUCH
2007-09-16 14:53:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its easier to talk online or text because you dont see the reactions to the persons expression of wat u said. What you should do is just be yourself because guys like when ur comfterble around them and they dont want u to act diffrent so just try to act normal and dont worry what they think of u and if they make fun of u there not worth it.
2007-09-16 15:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by tay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy. Some people are naturally shy, but on line, under the cover of anonymity, you can be whoever you want to be, and say anything you want to say, because even if you're judged, you won't know about it. On the other hand, in person, you clam up because you're afraid to say anything for fear you'll be misjudged or ridiculed. It's a whole different ball game. You're right out there -- a flesh and blood, living person!
Try to develop your self confidence, and be truthful and honest, so that you'll be able to be yourself, whether on line or in person.
2007-09-16 15:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because forums like this and chat rooms suck all of the natural social skills out of you.
You should try to meet people in person before corresponding.
2007-09-16 14:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by goatslunch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is simply being nervous about something new, in this case meeting a real person. Relax, just be yourself, everything was fine when you talked on line.
2007-09-16 14:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not...you still have that initial nervousness...if you are going to have an intimate relationship though...just go right ahead jump right into and then you should have no problem breaking the ice...LOL
2007-09-16 15:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
idk ur not used to talking in person
2007-09-16 14:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋