What's A Good Way To Say No To Your Boss?

Question

Or should I rather ask, what's a good way to be assertive to your boss without causing a conflict? If I feel as thought I'm being treated unfairly, how do I say no and express my reasoning? I work in a restuaruant and when there is no one on schedule whose only assigned to clean up the lobby, I'm usually the only one who is picked to do it. I think it's a personal issue or because I'm a guy. I remember recently I clocked out and I stayed 30 minutes over my schedule doing someone else's job. The lobby looked a mess and my boss came in and "told (not asked)" me to clock back in and get the lobby cleaned. Now keep in mind my shift is over, so the lobby is the third shifts problem. I had things to do and I was already late for a rehearsal, so I finally worked up a nerve to tell her I had to go.

Answer 1

Ummmm...next time you are at work make sure all your stuff is done. Now you can either try to clock out fast and go...which sounds like that doesn't work. OR you can say:

"I'm sorry, I have to leave now b/c I have an important prior engagement and I can not be late. But if you could please let me know in advance next time I would be happy to stay."

Do that and then if your jerk boss asks you stay late in the middle of you next shift say:
"Sure I can stay and help out 5 extra mins." and make sure you leave in exactly 5 mins. If they say something say "I'm sorry I couldn't stay longer but I have to go now and I am already late."

Eventually the a** will get the hint and b/c you were such a sweetie they can't fire you...if thats the plan.

Answer 2

Most workers prefer to pass it off and be somewhat lazy. Bosses always look for the workers when they want a job done. Unfair? Yes, but they know you will do it. Ask to have a conversation with her. Make an appointment with her. Good luck.

Answer 3

Sorry, I have to be somewhere. You'll need to find someone else.