I really need some help here somebody?

Question

There is this girl who when i was in high schoo in Californial i liked i was in the 12th grade and she was a junior.I wasn't confident enough to tell her by then that i liked her.After high school i moved to a different state where i am now and she is still in California.I recently found her profile on hi5 a site for friends made a friend request and she accepted, she even knew that i liked her i now have her email address and cell phone number two weeks ago she asked me when i was going to come back to California and i said next year, she sounded excited and said she couldn't wait to see me, I felt like maybe she likes me too hence the question.On her profile page i left some comments on it but she wouldn't even give me one comment, to her other friends she leaves comments ,then the last time we chatted online when we finished i asked her when next we will chat and she didn't even reply, so i'm really confused, please help me out and tell me what to do

Another issue is that she may move to California next year

Answer 1

well she might be scared to respond because,she may like you, but she probably realizes she would have to be in a long distance relationship if it goes further. but in any case if you got her number... give her a call, chat with her on the phone. i would say don't over commit though she might get scared off... also don't get in the "friends zone" though so don't under commit either. be strong, funny, be yourself, be likable.

Answer 2

Well, if you were acquainted in the past, she probably figures you know all about her, so comments weren't necessary. Often times, a lack of reply is not a rebuke. It simply means she didn't get the message, or someone interrupted her chat conversation with you, and she got distracted and forgot to sign off or reply. I wouldn't be too concerned, especially since she sounded excited to see you next year. When you do finally meet in person, you'll know whether it's for real or just wishful thinking on your part. Good luck!

Answer 3

I will answer this one from experience. Women have an uncanny habit of playing games. Regardless of what they might say about not wanting to be with anyone that plays games or how tired they are of head games. The sad thing is they don't even realize they are doing it. But it's all a game to them. So your choices are this. either A. call her and risk seeming like a tool or don't call her and risk missing her trying to reel you in. As far as the hi5 or a myspace comment. Don't take that crap so seriously, most people just get on there when they are bored to pass the time.

Answer 4

I believe you are reading too much into her actions because of your affections for her.She could simply be happy to see you after such a long distance and time. Everything could be platonic and above board.She is excited at the prospect of seeing you again when you visit California but in a non-romantic manner.Until you have more information about his feelings,do not start making wedding plans..

Answer 5

sounds like your an old good friend. they like the comments but don't feel the need to comment back. I do the same thing.. she's moved on and you've been out of the picture since you've moved and everything. I'd say move on.. she has.

Answer 6

first find out if she likes you and ask yourself this question is she worth changing your whole life for. if she is go go go and get her before someone else dose!!

Answer 7

I'm going to guess that she's committed to another.Forget her!

Answer 8

maybe she thought it won't work because your in a different state.