I am staying with my Father son, but I am not happy. And I am trying to learn how to get over him but I dont know how. what do I do. Everyday he does something to make me mad and he never spend time with me and his baby.help me please
2007-09-16 14:07:04 · 10 answers · asked by LaBrittany J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
realise that other people moved on and so should you
try to understand the meaning of LOVE EACH DAY
2007-09-16 14:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you need to find a new place. Continuing to stay with him is a big NO-NO if he's putting you threw all that. Then arrange something for him to come see the child at hand. YOu definitely have to be prepared for whatever radical way he may react. But slowly get your life back into place. Start doing things that you used to do in a point in time in life when you were happy. Time heals all wounds so eventually mamazZz...yours will heal.
2007-09-16 14:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by *AspiringModel* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY!
Does he work? Is he paying the bills, food on the table, a warm place to sleep.?
Is it possible your placing needs on him that he can't fill.
No one can make you happy that is totally up to you.
Time is something few people have today espically parents.
Try enjoying your baby and make the home a place he would want to spent more time in.
If your always whinning then he might be getting out so not to hear that.
Sorry about the tough love but sounds like you need it.
2007-09-20 12:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by dadw5boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is unfortunate that the father of your son is not engaged in the care of his son.Under this set of circumstances, it is no wonder, you are not happy and want out of the arrangement.I suggest that you contact family relations, an agency with the city that can situate you and your son until you can get your life together.Also check with social services and find out what help you can get.I am glad you're making an effort to get over him which can only work to your advantage;giving you and your son a new start in life.
2007-09-16 14:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy with your relationship, but you still love your partner you need to work it out. On the other hand if you don't love him it is time to move on. Leave him or else life with him will get more difficult; you'll end up having worse problem and will end up hurt yourself and your child. Now before you make a mistake really think about what your going to do so that you wont regret the step your going to take.
2007-09-16 14:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by SORA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless u are financially independent and do not need to depend on him AT ALL you can move on anytime. Because even if u ask for child support it can take a long time and that would not be enough to support you or the baby AT ALL.If you are not financially independent I suggest you go look for a job and try etc..good luck
2007-09-16 14:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Stanley the Westie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't learn to move on. You learn to accept that you moved on. No matter what you do it will hurt. exspecially it being your baby's dad. I know your hurt on this one. I have been through it. You do what is best for you and your child and trust me an unhappy relationship is not good at all. Whether its abuse or just no love. It teachs the kids bad relationship skills. if your not happy, you know what you got to do. its all about getting the guts to do it then it is learning how to get over it. trust me you can do it.
2007-09-16 14:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by shylovemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving on isn't easy, but not impossible. Maybe remove yourself from his world. Try not to see him. Every time he comes into your mind think of something else. Maybe try getting to know new guys, that always helps. But whatever you do, stay strong and know that you deserve better. Good Luck! :)
2007-09-16 14:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by Julia P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason you had a child out of wedlock outside of getting on welfare?
Try morality for a change of pace. Try respecting the male, and perhaps, you might find one with both more morality, and more respect for you.
2007-09-16 14:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by buttfor2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to forgive and forget... as long as you are stable money wise.. you'll be fine..
2007-09-16 14:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by hippywilson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋