Getting over the love of my lifetime.?

Question

I am a 41 yr old female. I started dating when I was 14 and have had countless relationships. Several months ago, I started dating a man that I had little interest in. I thought "hey, it's something to do". He turned out to be the most wonderful man I have ever known and made me so very happy. We fell deeply in love. Well he is having guilt issues about his daughter - he feels he is betraying her by being with me and also just told me that he is not emotionally capable of being with me now. I've gotten over many many breakups in the past, but I know I've just said goodbye to the the greatest love of my lifetime. Can anyone help me with ideas on how the ease the pain?

Answer 1

Well aside from continuing some sort of relationship with him, your forced to swallow this by yourself. BUT! B U T! BBBUUUTTT!!!! You now KNOW that its possible with the right person, to have a great and wonderful relationship!!! So realise he isn't the only wonderful man out there, there out there! So keep looking! And if you can, try and keep a correspondence with this guy, just because he isn't emotionally ready doesn't mean he can't talk to you like a good friends and use to be lover! Thats just wouldn't be fair!!! So see how there doing! Just let go of hoping for him, and hope to find more like him!