I dated my bf for 4 yrs in highschool & we broke up. Six yrs went by and we both changed and ended up back together. We have been 2gether about 2 and a haf years.I am 25 and he is 26.I live on my own and he lives at his parents house because he is trying to save money.A yr ago his cousin had been married very briefy & then divorced.When he got divorced, he moved in w/my boyfriend.Ever since, we dont really hang out as much.His cousin and him stay up drinking and hanging out.I dont sleep over much anymore bcuz him and his cousin share a room.Its like he always wanted to be here b4 & now he always wants to be home.Example, we hung out with his cousin Friday.Saturday he came to hang out with me. Sunday I ask him if he wants 2 go 2 the diner. He says no & then his cousin calls him like lets go out to eat. He jumps up and goes.This is at 3pm & says oh, I'll bring you back food. Then at 7pm he calls me and says I feel like staying home now bcuz I have work early tomorrow.Would u b mad?
2007-09-16 13:03:45 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him exactly how you feel, if he doesnt want to give you the time of day, id say byebye!
2007-09-16 13:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you should not be mad, unless his cousin is convincing him to see other women and do wrong when they go out. You shouldnt trip. Family comes first and blood is thicker than water. This is his cousin. He is just going through a faze. Let him have fun with his cousin for a while and I guarantee he will get tired of it. If you nag or fuss about it, it can only push him away. If you are truly important to him, he will be back. You should find a friend to hang out with yourself and occupy your time when you are away from him.
2007-09-16 21:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by Nicety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it is clear you should move on and not waste anymore time with him. You are on your own, doing good and he lives at home yet? I would be hurt if I were you,
yes it seems he likes to hang and go out with cousin more then you. You deserve better and it would make your life easier for you to concentrate on your carrier and climb that ladder, You sound very smart, level headed and there is a man out there for you that will support you and enjoy being with you. Good luck!
2007-09-16 23:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by Suzanne L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he hasn't changed at all.. Also I think you are wasting your time with him. If he is so interested in his cousin than in you let him f*ck his cousin instead.. He is acting childish and not giving you what you need.. I would find someone who does give me what I need and set it up so he walks in on it. Then it will hit him so hard it will make his head pop off but then he might go run to his cousin.
2007-09-16 20:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by whiteroses202004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think hes tired of the relationship.. Either he needs something to spice it up or hes gonna break out when he feels he get a chance... Seems like he wanna move on but not sure yet. Think closely of your situations and watch the little signs whats happening. They are there and give the facts you need to make your decision what to do. To give an ultimatum, try and spice it up or break up.
Good luck, there are more out there worth it.
2007-09-16 20:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be mad. i think your boyfriend loves his cousin more than he loves you or maybe he never got the chance to have so much fun with his cousin before. my advice is to break up with him and see what happens next or you can try hanging out with your boyfriend and his cousin but if you cant then my other advice would be to make him jealous or you can give him some time. hope everything goes well..
2007-09-16 20:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by m!LLy b0r3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah! first of all he is spending time with his cousin because its obvious his cuz is on the prowl!(living the single life) and your boyfriend is enjoying the attention or just like to tag along and be the wing man if it is bothering you soo much then you should confront him and talk about how you are feeling if it continues then get rid of him you do not need all that stress in your life, you're still young! besides you are better off alone then miserable
2007-09-16 20:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by sweetinsanity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like your relationship, regardless of your feelings involved in it... that your b/f is still in that high school state where you just have a g/f or b/f to have one instead of being in it for the right reasons. There is always the chance that he is just oblivious to what he is doing. Before doing anything crazy, you should just sit down and talk to him face to face. Communication is the key to any relationship that is going to last!
2007-09-16 20:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was a dude no because he told you no and then when his cuzzo asked he jumped up and said yea so i would explain that to him if he get's mad because you gotta work and that can hold off intill the weekend or when ever you got free time
2007-09-16 20:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by applebottom-butt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow but no offense but you could do way better.especially if he treats you like dirt and his cousin like god.i mean family comes before girlfriends and friends but not like that.tell him how you feel and if he still does it or doesnt like what you have to say i would say buhbye to that total loser.
2007-09-16 20:10:19 · answer #10 · answered by bleeding_heart_emo_ranger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he should basically should be given a choice you or his cousin.
2007-09-16 20:08:16 · answer #11 · answered by Mary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋