Hey! I'm a boy who is 16 and I think that im bisexual. I have liked this boy for about 1 year now, i had him for class. in class he talked to me but just a little or when we wasnt being talked to. IN the hall ways he looks at me and gives me a look like " what are.. you..doing?" but when his with friends he totally ignore's me. He kind of acts gay, I mean when i message him on myspace on everything he says he types "lol" "haha" he seems to be laughin but in school he dosent. After two replies he stops talking to me. so i decided to make a myspace of a gay guy, i messaed him 3 weeks ago and we have been talking for all those weeks. I mean in the gay myspace we have talked more than what me and him talk or regular bases. I love this boy , i can honestly say that, but what should I do bcause i dont want to get judge by him or by his friends, I dont want to get laughed at an ignored and in no time people will now im bi. I dont want that so what should I do so he can know that i like him
2007-09-16 12:54:06 · 24 answers · asked by Jesse C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like him so much that i will do anything for him. I mean im abtinense but if he ever told me if he wanted to do something sexual i would, thats how much i like him. At the same time i dont want to tell him becuase i fear that he will say no and instead tell all his friends (and i must say i am popular in my school so my life was such) Im actually a junior in school and i dont want my teenage years to such. I want to be happy tho, i really do. I cry sometimes thinking if i will ever find someone for me. it would be great if at least he said he was bi because i will be happy or if he made it clear that he does or dosent like me but how will he tell me that if he dosent even know that i like him and i dont even know if he likes me.
2007-09-16 12:57:25 · update #1
go for it. If this were me, i wouldnt give a damn what other pompouses thought.
2007-09-16 12:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, this sounds interesting. Ok, well, if the guy talked to you only on your 'gay guy' myspace page, then I would think that he's not what he seems. He had an opporturnity to talk to you on your regular myspace page, and he didn't, and now he's being an imposter. So, what I would do is make you a better you. What I mean by that is get to know more people. If you are only 16, that means high school and all the other idiots in the same high school. Trust me, it will get better once you are outta there. For now, love from a far. YOU never know, let him work for you. Let him come to you. And if he doesn't, he's not worth your time.
Good luck.
2007-09-16 20:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by Vetty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure he's really gay/bi first and get to know him better as you and not just your gay myspace. It may take some time but if nothing else at least you are able to admit to yourself that your bi and that's a big step. I am bi and before I came out I was really scared of what my friends would think. It turns out most peopl are more exepting than I expected, I hope it's the same for you.
2007-09-16 20:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by Tori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing for you to do is tell him privately. I believe you can trust him enough to say that he won't judge you. Don't tell him you're the gay guy from Myspace that you made up. Just call him, or ask to speak to him privately. Tell him that you are attracted to him. Don't feel so depressed if he shows some negative emotions. This is probably the first time he's been told that another boy likes him. Of course, and naturally he will act different. Give him some space and room. You should know that you are putting your own emotions at risk by telling him.
Do NOT tell him that you love him. That would scare him away!
2007-09-16 20:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by ¥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The question is does he know that you are gay, cause if he does and he still communicates with you then maybe he is bisexual too. If not then maybe he's just being conversial and friendly. Then again if he acts a certain way at school maybe he don't want anyone to know his sexuality,so you willl have to respect that and keep things on the down low if you know what I mean.
2007-09-16 20:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mercedes...F, 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most teenage 1st love stories,,r just love stories..
no matter how strong ur feelings r, know that one day u'll have stronger than them...
about that guy, why dont u ask him on myspace if he is bi or homo, then u would have ur answer, and it would be easier for u if u knew that he is bi or homo, if he is not ,then u need to back off, cuz u said it u have a social life, plus u need to move on with ur love life, i bet there r many nice guys out there waitin for u...
so dont stick here, this is ur first experience
wish u the best..
goodluck ;)
2007-09-16 20:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by Rudolfie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i dont know, this might not be much help but i just think people who give comments just saying how wrong you are and that you should get a gf is childish, i can tell it must be hard for you and thought people would actually help you, i think you should just ask him on myspace or on his own if you dont u might end up regreting it. good luck.
2007-09-16 21:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not bi, you are gay, and you just need to come out of the closet. If you feel that strongly about this then you need to deal with it. If he is on the gay web site, than he is gay also. You need to confront him with the fact that you are the one talking to him, and would like to get to know him better. Does your family know yet, if not then you might want to break the news to them, so they don't hear it through the grape vine.
2007-09-16 20:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tough call. If you do ask him out, and he is not gay, well, there goes all your reputation. If he is, you will most likely still be made fun of, but I guess you will atleast have a boyfriend.
I really can't say much else, because I am not in your situation.
2007-09-16 19:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by James 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is absolutely nothing wrong with bisexuals.
so dont worry about it.
he just might be two faced many people are like this they talk to you fine online and then in life they arent as open i know this for a fact.
but most of the time they are just shy .
2007-09-16 20:04:48 · answer #10 · answered by Suckka free. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
everyone who just said ew.
i want to kick you all in the teeth ******* losers.
just get the gay guy on myspace to ask him if hes gay, and if he says yes then tell him.
2007-09-16 20:58:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋