Have you ever loved someone so much that it hurt, and you wanted to get over them, but at the same time you didn't want to because there's always that thought in the back of your mind, that maybe they'll come back to you and give you a chance?
2007-09-16 10:37:27 · 18 answers · asked by juneBUG 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that right there is such a waste to even think about and it can only cause un needed and un wanted extra suffering to even keep thoughts like that, life is way to short to fantasize about what could of been, better yet have what you want with another instead of wasting time thinking about someone who isn't worth thinking about to begin with...
2007-09-16 10:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but its called an illusion, if they are gone and they are with someone else that is our answer they want to be someone other than us, and we do have to move on as they have, it is sad to think that some times when we love someone, and they dont return that love to us, there is a reason, but you know what at least they have given us the opportunity to love them, which means we are capable of loving someone, its just time to move on cause they one that will love you is out there waiting for you to let go of the one that doesnt love you, and when you do let go, they shall and will appear.
2007-09-16 17:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but the thing was too much for us to handle. After a while we discovered that it's best this way...not seeing or hearing from each other anymore. And we got over it slowly...both of us.
2007-09-16 17:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a break up happens, it has to be for some good reason, and if it's a good reason, there's usually no chance of getting back together.
2007-09-16 17:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by Omar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes dear i have,
i can tell you by my experience that it does not depend on you that how much you love him. but it depends on him that how much he loved you or how have you cared for him so that he feels as if you feel for him. take care and stop thinking about it i know its difficult but somehow you have to do it , if you feel that you were correct from your part stick to it , whatever happens, happens for good and if u are right then it will always be in your favour. Best of luck. and bye bye. TC.
2007-09-16 17:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by AG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky to have loved like that. Now pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and move on. Nothing is worse than mooning over a lost love. You gotta get over it.
2007-09-16 17:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by MadameZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there just let it all go and get on with your life -
It is natural to grieve for a little after any kind of loss.
Don't dwell on the loss for too long.
2007-09-16 17:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by Bemo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absoulutely..i still have that guy in my mind every day and think about him and its really hard because i go to school and see him with his girlfriend...a.k.a. my friend and it hurts so much because i remember when we did have something and wish so much i could just go back to that time....i hope everything works out for you though...but just know your not alone in going through this! lol : )
2007-09-16 17:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by Elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah---it's a bitter feeling, hard to get over the feeling, and hard to control it, sometimes you just have to forget about it and try to let life gfo on w/o it--
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2007-09-16 17:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by simplebutsweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It hurts, but you'll get over it eventually.
We're only human, that's what we do. :]
2007-09-16 17:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋