ok so there is this one guy that i have feelings for and a couple months ago he had a girlfriend and he was caling me a s**** and that i get paid for it and then just last night he called me and said that i hurt him and that he loves me but i alway f*** it up. and when he was going to hang up he told me that if i send him a naked pic he will maybe be nice to me and then he was like well babe good night sweet dreams and i will talk to you later and well my question is why do guys like to cause so much pain when they know how much feelings you have for them .
2007-09-16 08:07:07 · 27 answers · asked by highmoon252006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This just sounds like someone who should be avoided, someone with low moral standings and severe social retardation. Stay away from him, he seems unstable.
2007-09-16 08:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by heavy_cow 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys act like that. There are two types of guys in this situation. A$$holes and gentlemen. Im'pretty sure that you can assume which one he is. I wouldn't ever treat a girl like that. So why he did it, I don't know. It doesn't make sense that he would say something to hurt you, but then say 'good night sweet dreams.' Don't mess with him. From the way he has treated you, you should know that he is no good.
2007-09-16 08:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by 400 Meters 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like that. I know some guys who are very nice and have awesome personalities. The guy you mention is not worth your time. He seems like a player and a jerk who does not respect women. You can do better! :)
Try talking to other guys who you think could be potential boyfriends. Don't let this one guy restrain you on your future love conquests. I am sure that you will discover that there are amazing guys out there! :)
2007-09-16 08:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by Hi!!! :) 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's immature and likes the drama. Tell him to send you a naked pic first, so you can wallpaper the school with it. :)
Seriously, if he's blaming you for everything, that's a sign of a serious mental issue. Abusers do such things. Run, don't walk.
Sounds like Mike down there has some issues of his own. Does your Mommy let you type such things?
2007-09-16 08:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by LolaC☼ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't have answers as to why. Sorry. But I don't think this is a guy you would really want as a boyfriend. It doesn't sound like he respects women at all. I hope someday the right guy finds you and realizes how special you are.
2007-09-16 08:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by lovestheCale 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He may have a low esteem and need as much feedback from women as he can to cover for the lack of esteem. He may also need to have a fall back plan so you or his girlfriend will always be there if the other realizes the *fun* that he is having.
2007-09-16 08:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
they know you like them and they take advantage of that, they think you'll go running or you like tem so much you'll do anything for them... in your case send a naked pic.
for the past 6 years i've had all bad relationships with idiots, even now theres a guy i like and he knows i've liked him for a long time, i moved away for year and before i went he was telling me not to go but at the time i didnt know where i stood with him, some days he'd ask me round to watch a movie n he would cuddle n that but it never went any further, anyway i left and i came bk 2 weeks ago, we started talkin again and he told me his love life non existent, he said he would take me to lakes for a weekend but when i got home he never offered to see me once even though i had to go to hospital, he never bothered to visit me and last weekend he got drunk and foned me ded late at night saying he wanted to see me, i said no and the next day he said forget what i said i was drunk, i told him how i felt and he knew it anyway but said we'll just see, after then i got no texts or owt but on friday night he got drunk and wanted to see me and come over and talk.....afterwards... nothing.... he just thinks that i'll go running when he decides he wants to see me, and its the same with half ov them out there. Be so careful with this guy, i doubt you can trust him or rely on him or anything... its not worth getting hurt!!!! trust me i've been there and its not nice.
2007-09-16 08:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by mybabyefe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, forget this guy. He's demanding, confounding and stuck up.
Not all guys are like that. To be honest, when it comes to relationship, we are usually too dense to hurt someone.
This particular guy sounds like me might be an abusive-two timing-****.
And don't ever, ever send a nude pic to someone you don't fully trust.
2007-09-16 08:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by mechbasket 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he's a manipulative azz. not all guys are like this. you were just unfortunate enough to encounter this fool. guys like this end up on cops for beating their wives. look at how he's playing you.
♥ he knows u like him.
♥ he treats u like crap.
♥ he contacts u out of the blue and apologizes.
♥ then during the phone conversation in which he just apologized, he blames the situation on YOU.
♥ he tries to manipulate you again by trying to get you sexual in order for him to "be nice" to you.
♥ he plays the sweet card again before hanging up.
2007-09-16 08:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't care about you babe, he only cares about himself !!! Don't give him any pictures that guy has no respect for you.Have some self respect or you will see your pictures all over the Internet !!!
2007-09-16 08:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by boscowood 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋