If somebody I just started dating asks me why did my last relationships ended, what can I say. The truth is that I haven't had many relationships. The most significant for me was with this guy that just walk away without giving me a good reason he just said he had problems after almost 3 months. And the last one wasn't a real relationship, just a friend with benefits, but I ended that because I want a serious fullfilling relationship now. The problem is if the person Im dating asks me about my last relationships why they ended, what can I say? I don't want them to think that Im difficult to get along with and run away. And if they ask if Im virgin like on the first date, should I answer or not? Its ok to let him kiss me without first asking me to be his girlfriend?
2007-09-16 08:06:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If hes asking why they ended, just tell them you had your differences and decided it was best to end it. I doubt hell ask you about the virgin thing, but just be honest.
2007-09-16 08:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by ModernKnight4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When asked how your last relationship ended, try to be as honest as possible, BUT giving as little detail as possible. Say, if you caused the break-up, just say you broke up with the guy because [insert reason here], period. No more details.
If asked if you're a virgin on a first date, its your prerogative to answer or not. If you like the person and he asked it more in humor, answer truthfully. If the person seems a little 'guttered' and you don't like him, completely change the topic if you can.
As for kissing without being his girlfriend, its totally fine in most respects, but be sure that you can create limits even for yourself. Because we all know, a kiss can get somewhere...
2007-09-16 08:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by Down 'n lost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest on all counts...prior relationships, virginity, etc. but only if asked!
As for the "ok to let them kiss me first" question - I wouldn't commit to any kind of relationship if I hadn't first kissed the guy. I'm married but any boyfriend I ever had we kissed first (after a date) and then it progressed to a committed boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.
2007-09-16 08:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by Empress1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just answer the question. What you typed should be fine.
The virgin thing..well he really should not ask......you should just dodge that question(say something like..'you will just have to figure out that answer for yourself')
It's OK to kiss a little while not official(gotta know if you even like the persons kisses after all). But after a couple kisses it really should be made official.
2007-09-16 08:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my sugestion in this is, your reason, plain and simple you havent met the right person yet. either you werent into it or he wasnt. you dont need to go into details.
if a guy is asking you on a first date if your a virgin, well theres something up. one the question shouldnt come up. two it shouldnt come up on a first date guarenteed. the only time the question should arise if it does, is aft6er your already hot and heavy and being worked into the mood.
2007-09-16 08:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down, slow down!!!
take a breather...there.
okay, well tell him that the last relationship ended because it he changed into someone you didn't know.
If they ask you "the virgin" thing, just say with a sly smile "wouldn't you like to know"
however, if he pressures u 2 have sex before ur ready,
then tell him it;s too early, or i really want to save myself for the right person..
yes, it's okay to let them kiss you before he asks you to be his gf...if it's a real date...
but who knows, it can develop into something more...
2007-09-16 08:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are gonna choose for to invite on the top of the date. it particularly is while the romantic element will help u. while she's taking part in u or extremely taking part in some time togethr she will have the means to proly say confident!!!
2017-01-02 06:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by tanton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the truth im sure he will understand you
2007-09-16 08:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by soccer grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋