well ive seen this person once and i have a crush on them but im afraid to tell them how i feel i even considered writning a note to them but i have no clue on what to write i need HLP PLZ!!!!!!!
2007-09-16 08:00:41 · 14 answers · asked by hollister 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and im only in the 9th grade so its kind of different you cant just go up to them and say hello because then theyll think your CoRnY!!!!
2007-09-16 08:10:12 · update #1
I think it is best to be honest in all situations, including this one. So first of all, I'd say something like, "You know I am feeling funny around you because I am beginning to like you as more than a friend. Help me out here, are you having similar feelings or have I lost my mind?"
This gives him a lighthearted way out, and it does the same for me.
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2007-09-16 08:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by ravishingV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, before I could tell my crush that I liked him, 4 of my friends individually went to him and told him. I think that he was beyond irritated when I finally went to him and admitted that I liked him. I asked him out, he turned me down, but we're friends now, so it kinda worked out for the best.
Do not get your friends involved! If you must write a note, write something simple like " Hey, I think you're cute. I would like to talk to you." Then include your name and phone number. If they call, great. If not, don't take it personal!
2007-09-16 08:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by Caliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking the person out on a 'friendly' date at first, even bring along common friends to make the mood more natural. Then, you can start getting to know this person, as well as letting the person get to know you too. This would lay the bridge for you to know how to tell the person you like him/her, based on his/her personality, and possible preference.
It always helps to take it one step at a time. ;)
2007-09-16 08:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by Down 'n lost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-15 09:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by deperte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You saw the person once. Why don't you try to ask the person out? It doesn't have to be just you and that person alone. Maybe you, that person, and some of your friends can hang out together. Then you can move on from there to maybe just the two of you. Good luck!
2007-09-16 08:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by Caitlyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't write a note please! just muster enough courage and talk to them. you don't have to tell them u like them asap you can just start by saying hello the first time and maybe the next time ask her out for a drink or something. remember she is human as well and she might even like you for all you know.
2007-09-16 08:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by deehunz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say that you would like the chance to get to know them better and looking forward to a wonderful friendship.That will let them know that you are interested and want to get to know them more.Best wishes to you and here is a star for you !
2007-09-16 08:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the guy is supossed to ask the girl and the girls like the compliments and so wait a little longer before you ask her out flirt with her and if she does it back go for her
2007-09-16 08:06:19 · answer #8 · answered by soccer grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm,i wouldn't write a note,cause if she doesn't like you,she may use that note to make others laugh!i would try to do the things that she does!
for example,does she take art class?i'd take it too!and slowly i'd talk to her,and take classes that she takes!or find a mutual friend and tell that friend to tell her that you like her!
good luck!!:)
2007-09-16 11:30:46 · answer #9 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it's all a part of growing up.. rejection... but you have to do it.. If she/he says yes i like you to and I want to date you, then it's all good, but if they reject you, oh well such as life, you bounce back and start all over again..
2007-09-16 08:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by Hummbaba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋