Do you view ATTACHMENT as good or bad in a relationship?

Answer 1

Attachment is what makes any person relate with somebody else to have a relationship. When it is destructive and possessive thats when its bad. Anything when abused becomes bad. So when you abuse an attachment,you would see the bad side of it.

Answer 2

depends what sort of attachment it is. Withour attachment then there can be no relationship, just strangers who pass in the night. ANxious or ambivalent attachment can be problematic with high dependency or chaotic relationships.
Only secure attachments with each person calmed and reassured and warming to the other person is likely to be the best.

Answer 3

You dont have a relationship without attachment. Being a couple arises from having wants and views that are alike.

Answer 4

It depends on the relationship and what the attachment is to....each other? Then, that is alright if you both want that, but it sounds like you have doubts. Communicate. Don't let it be one sided.

Answer 5

what kind of attachment are you referring to...my brother?

if you mean total dependence, in human relationships, i believe it is devastating to be totally dependent and attached on that person, doing so, would possibly drain the other person's energy.

individuality and personal growth must be given importance, even if you are attached to that person.

in my experience, it is good and wise to detach too at times.

Answer 6

I think it's okay when it is a healthy relationship and the attachment is mutual.

Answer 7

without it there would be no relationship

Answer 8

it is most needed in relation ship