I've had this guy friend for a year but he lives in another state. We knew each other before but not very well. Also flirted when chatting a few times and there is chemistry. A few months ago, we arranged to meet and had this meeting a few days ago when we met and made out...but not full sex as I said I didnt want to so soon. I've heard that if a guy wants sex very early on, it means hes out for a fling. Is this true? He had planned a trip another guy friend of his but has now invited me to come with them. Thing is, I feel embarassed about moving quite intimate and I dont know why I feel like this. Also there was a lot of passion. He told me nothing has changed just because we did this and that I'm still invited on the trip. I just want to know what are the signs to look for that he is also falling for me? he is a decent guy.
2007-09-16 03:30:12 · 7 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I have met his friend and he's a really nice guy too & is fine with me going with them. It's a vacation travelling around together.
2007-09-16 03:41:19 · update #1
I can't help but wonder why this guy would ask you to join him and another guy (that you don't know) on a trip? If you refused to have sex with him the last time you saw him because it was "too soon", I would suspect that he will want to try again, maybe thinking that a little 'vacation' might relax you just enough where you would say 'yes'.
Is it a fling? Maybe - but then again, maybe not. I would refuse the invite, and ask him to call you when he got back. Again, this is just my own opinion.
2007-09-16 03:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Paul L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres potential for love here, but dont take things too fast. It sounds like he still likes you, since he invited you to go on this trip with him. However, if you really want to develop a relationship with him (instead of just being a fling), dont go on this trip with him. Because things got so intimate with him before, you might be tempted to sleep with him.
Take things slow, get to know him and give him a chance to get to know you. Dont rush sleeping with him, otherwise itll just turn into a fling.
2007-09-16 10:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by andie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems like a fling to me. however, there might be a chance that he likes u too. but physically, which is not exactly what we women looked up for for the rest of our life. try asking his friends if he had mentioned bout u with them. chances are if a guy invited u out with his frinds, means that he wanted u to know his friends and that he's comfy having u around.
2007-09-16 10:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by Heaven Hill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a fling. The more you make your self convenient to him, the more he "likes" you...but I promise you he's not "falling in love with you" or looking for a commitment, if that's what you're thinking.
2007-09-16 10:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me more... What kind of trip? I think if you have chemistry this could work. Does he want you to meet this friend?
2007-09-16 10:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by FoxyEva25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you will be safe travelling with two guys???
It might be more romantic if he had suggested just the 2 of you.
Go with your gut instinct...........trust me . it works.
If you are worried or not sure then DONT .....its that simple !
2007-09-16 10:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunno
2007-09-16 10:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by **BurnBabyBurn** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋