Is he falling in love too?
I've had this guy friend for a year but he lives in another state. We knew each other before but not very well. Also flirted when chatting a few times and there is chemistry. A few days ago, we met and made out...but not full sex as I said I didnt want to so soon. I've heard that if a guy wants sex very early on, it means hes out for a fling. Is this true? We're meeting again shortly but I feel embarassed about moving quite intimate and I dont know why I feel like this. The thing is there was a lot of passion. I just want to know what are the signs to look for that he is also falling for me? he is a decent guy.
2007-09-16 02:52:56 · 6 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No he's not falling in love. He's hanging on hoping that he'll get it this time. If he were falling in love with you he'd move to be close to you. Has he done that or are you just seeing him to "see what happens" the next time you're together? I promise you he's looking for some...and nothing more. Grow up.
2007-09-16 02:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys want sex at first, even the good ones. If you feel in your gut that this guy is just using you then, you're feeling it for a reason.
As a test, next time you see him do something out of the house so there is no chance of any unwanted physical activity, if you know what I mean.
don't just do what he wants, otherwise he WILL take advantage of it
2007-09-16 02:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by WindChild 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont' know they guy or whether he is falling for you or not. If the two of you have chemistry then that's a good sign.
If you don't feel it's appropriate to have sex with him right now, then do not do it!
Men always want sex.... he will wait for it if he likes you.
2007-09-16 02:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know, only time will tell. I say give it time.
By the way, some men are really good at playing the game, and know they may have to wait for the sex that they are after.
2007-09-16 03:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's decent if he's not pressuring you. If it's mutual than perhaps all is well. If you feel in your heart of hearts that the relationship wont last unless you put out than he's using you. If you aren't putting out and he's still coming around then this is a good thing.
2007-09-16 02:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by sweet 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
are you sure that your falling in love? long distance dating and spending long periods of time face to face are very different things. you may not like the face to face person as much after you've been together for any measurable amount of time... tread carefully.... and good luck!
2007-09-16 03:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by confusedsoul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋