My girlfriend and I broke up literally 2 weeks ago out of a serious 2 year relationship, in that 2 weeks she got a new job and met someone at work. I spoke with her a couple days ago and she has a b/f now, she said she wishes we never broke up and this is her way of moving on, cause she's afraid to be lonely. Don't you think its too early for her to be in a relationship?? i mean come one this is like jr high kind of ****.
2007-09-16 02:51:50 · 10 answers · asked by Robert S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, she needs to move on, as long as it is love, and not on the rebound, she has a life, you have not said who did the splitting up, wonder if it was your fault, sorry you should be happy that she is happy now, if she wishs that you hadn't broken up, well her love for you is not as strong as her love for her new bf, contact her tell her you are happy for her, and hope all goes well for her, without being sarcastic. and you move on if you haven't , now you didn't spill the beens there have you??? wonder if you have been looking or more
2007-09-16 03:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by please ask m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes, it may be too early, but it's really none of your business. It sounds like you're the one who broke it off (since she's saying she wishes you two never broke up), so why are you concerned about it? You were obviously ready to move on.....
2007-09-16 09:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she needs a man in her life. Maybe she doesn't want to be lonely, but it sounds like she's looking for more than a b/f. He was probably her **** buddy while she was still with you. Then when she broke up with you, she changed jobs to be closer to him all the time.
Move on. You don't deserve to hurt from this girl.
2007-09-16 09:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by back from the dead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is "rebounding" and that relationship won't work...
People who think they have to have a boyfriend or girlfriend in their lives to exist are needy and don't have a clue that they are an "individual" ... maybe you're fortunate she is moving on already? Do you really want someone who has no sense of self?
2007-09-16 09:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it too early? It's not like there is a mourning period for a break-up or anything. Sheesh....you sound like YOU are the one in in Jr High. Move on.
2007-09-16 09:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not over you (contrary to whateveryone is saying) What she said is true. She has no self-reliance and needs someone at all times. Trust me, its better living without someone like that
2007-09-16 09:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will always be to early my freind. Don't give your ex that much allowing. She dumped you, And dumped is forever. Let her crawl back this time and she'll be breakin upmwith you whenever she wants for food stamps and other guys.
2007-09-16 09:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was seeing that guy b4 you broke up? Think think. and thats why you broke because of him.
2007-09-16 09:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no power over that! you guys broke up. she's free to do wabt dhe wants. she obviously got over you pretty fast. you may want to consider how well you handle realtionships.
2007-09-16 09:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by WindChild 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She had him way before you two broke up pal.
2007-09-16 09:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋