How do I conquer this problem? As soon as I have something figured out I lose interest.?

Question

Example. I was dating this super hot girl and as soon as I knew I could F her I lost interest. Why? Because I have already F'ed hot girls and I know the outcome, a great orgasm. Another example, I was about to master playing the piano but after 2 months I lost interest. I nearly completed a commercial level computer program but then I lost interest. I figured out and planned on designing a virtual world but then I lost interest. Once I have things figured out I dont' want to do it anymore. WTF is wrong with me? PLEASE HELP. I need help! I have several ideas that will make millions of dollars but since I see it already succeeding in my head, I don't feel like doing it anymore.

Answer 1

Sounds a bit to me,that you are a master of sabotaging yourself..it's almost like, you tell yourself,..I am inadequete..and if I finish the job,and it's not good enough,..then I have to hear it..even though you really know you are great..it is just a feeling of the challenge..You are apparently very smart, and your mind needs much more stimulation..I think you should try to figure out the Bible..that would keep you going for years...God Bless lol..through Jesus xxx

Answer 2

Sounds like you have a severe ADD disorder, or could be another type of mood disorder. Have you actually tried going to counseling or to an actual doctor?
You might even have a fear of finishing things, (type of procrastination) which can be quite common. Once you finish something, that is it, it is done, if you dont finish, you still have it in your head somewhere as an idea, and seems like you may actually like having the ideas more than the actual outcome that you want to achieve. You want so much to achieve a goal, but dont want to do the work to actually get there as it bores you or you just dont want to take the time to do it. Maybe you should try just once to reach a goal and force yourself to stick with it no matter how long it takes and think of nothing else but that goal. Dont start nothing else inbetween either, you have to force yourself to hold interest. You might actually be surprised at how you feel once you achieved it with true compassion and effort. If not, go to a doctor or someone who has studied cases like this that can really help you, unless you dont think you can finish that either.
Remember, you are the one that has to change if you dont like the way you are, we cant do it for you. At least you already admitted the problem, now just try and do something about it. Sounds like you have alot of potential, you just need to find a way to actually use it, otherwise, you are going to waste quite abit of your life.
Hope this helps.

Answer 3

u're just like me... real same, except the F part of course.
well, maybe it's because u get interested so easily that u lost interest so quickly.
maybe u should take thing slowly, don't get too excited over something too soon or u'll lose it.
i can say this bcoz i'm completely same as u, i'm so amazed watching my friend played piano wonderfuly, then i startes taking piano lessons, but i got dead bored in 1 month and i quit.

Answer 4

Find a belief in something . I relate quite a lot of things towards Worcestershire sauce, therefore giving me the opportunity to believe in things from unusual angles.

Answer 5

whats wrong with you dude??
(if this advice helps you.... dont forget me!)

dont think small....
think big...
think about things that you will conquer or delt with after youre done with those little things that your lossing interest with....

i do to loose interest with those little things that i do... but if you think bigger...oh.... just see your self on top of the world! Ü

Answer 6

Just give them to me then I guess.