any real story that made u brok up but now you are together or even married.i feel like i need to hear something like this to be patient
2007-09-15 23:04:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
To be patient?? What on Earth do you mean? If you need patience to tolerate a person, then chances are, that they are not the right one for you! We all need to accept our own responsibility for our relationships...in other words, what did I do or did not do that made the other person react the way they did? If you can not be yourself around this person, then they are not the right one for you. and visa versa...if you can not tolerate aspects of their personality, then your search for Mr. Right is not over. Let this one go his way, and keep looking. Do not expect to change them either..you know how hard it is to change yourself, then realize how impossible it is to change some one else. When you do find the right guy, usually when you are not looking, you will know deep in your heart that it is right. You will not need 'patience' to ever look his short comings.....because you love you will see more but because you love you will see less.
2007-09-15 23:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by territizzyb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only advice is I could ever give, is if it is a new relationship and it is bad, don't try to make it better.
If it is more of a long term relationship, there are more ties and history or baggage, so this makes it a little harder.
Each relationship is different and has it's own reasons. I have known people who have had really bad relationships and they have gotten fantastic. However I also know a few who are trapped in a relationship because they didn't know how to fix it.
You are the only person who can answer this. It is alot easier to leave at the start of a shitty relationship than later. You have yo weigh up all of YOUR options and think rally deep. A womens soul is usually right.
2007-09-15 23:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by littlemonstersx2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, I looked at your other questions. Your bf was looking at other women on the internet and left you abruptly 3 days ago. He was not that into you, was not ready to settle down, and is gone. I suggest you mourn your loss and move on, rather than fantasize that he is going to come back to you, marry you, and live happily ever after. You aren't even in a position where he's come back after your fight/break up wanting a second chance. And in most cases where that happens, the couple experiences more of the same problems and arguments that led to that breakup.
2007-09-16 04:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. X 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Been there...Broke up with my LOOOOONG term girlfriend (12 years) who was basically a lying, cheating whore and took off with a really good female friend for 7 months, only to find out that I couldn't live without the lying cheating whore.
After I found out that my new girlfriend was a gold digger and was using me, I called up the lying, cheating whore and we talked all night and into the next AFTERNOON.
Truthfully, once all the lies stopped and everything was out in the open, everything has been great...We have been together for the last 9 years...Happily (everafter?)
2007-09-15 23:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
properly you slept w/ somebody and he or she had a 2 week dating.. sounds somewhat even to me.. its in comparison to you didnt do something on your wreck.. in case you sense such as you arent finished searching for different individuals, and seeing what else is available.. perhaps you should be trouble-free w/ her, and tell her which you incredibly decide to this ingredient different individuals for a jointly as.. the ingredient you're able to desire to recollect is that she could no longer be there after your finished relationship different individuals.. perhaps its your ego that has the suited of you, because of the fact she dated somebody and you didnt.. be certain what extremely makes you happy, could that's relationship different individuals or being with the single your with now.. in case you decide on the single your with now... recover from your ego holiday, you slept with somebody else to boot.. so .. who cares if its one night, or 2 weeks..
2016-11-14 14:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by hurlbut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes my friend it happens all the time, I am now married 40 years, not easy, but I am still in love, only you will know what is right for you. good luck
2007-09-15 23:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have, but the spell is broken, and it's never as good the second time around, I'm sorry to say.
2007-09-16 00:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by melouofs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
after fighs and horrible insults we got back together...only for more horrible, humiliating episodes to happen.it does not saound like he is right for you.you fought.you can not mend it!!
i know it is hard but let go!!!!
2007-09-16 01:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes a 100 times
so much hurt so much pain, but still together
it's like going through hell
2007-09-15 23:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by LG 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just leads to more of the same. Sometimes worse, sometimes leads to death.
2007-09-15 23:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋