I cant stand it.. they want me to sit down there every night and eat dinner with them while my mom nags me about stupid stuff and while my dad slurps and make the most abnoxious noises.... i get soo annoyed with themm.... ii cant wait til i go off to college!!!!
my mom does this thing about the room.. she never has to see the room but she is always saying that is annoying to her.. i can live with a messy room and that is all that matters./.... is still have four more years... well not even... i can not wait!!!! my parents want me to go to coollege in my hometown too.. that would mean that i live with them.. like i am goinmg to do that... i am going to get as far away from this stupid little nasty town as a can... thanks for listening!
oh i can deffinently stay mad for a long time..i am never not mad at them...i wish that
2007-09-15 15:09:51 · 19 answers · asked by Theresa 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
its not like i dont love my parents..i just dont want to live with them .. i can wait til i can move out on my own and only see them a couple weeks a year..i wouldnt mind talking on the phone all the time but i cant wait til my life is non of thier business.. they dont understand anything that is going on with me.. i just broke up with my boyfriend and they dont care..i mean they dont know buit they can at least see that im in a bad mood and that i just want to be left alone.. i cant stand them!!!
2007-09-15 15:29:09 · update #1
i am not some little brat who needs to grow upp.. i dont care what youpeople think because you dont know me... every one need to vent... it just so happens that i am doing it by this.. you dont have to read this if you odnt want to...i really just wanted to see who else agreed with me..whatever... just stop saying that i am some little kid.. that annoys the crap out of me.!
2007-09-15 15:32:12 · update #2
Ask your parents to talk about pleasant things during dinner instead of criticism. If they won't, sit under the table and eat your dinner. Worked for me.
If you are a sharp kid, it is to your advantage to go to college away from home. Doesn't have to be in another state, but you should be working and saving money for a dorm room, at the very least. Research the rules in your state. My state allows reciprocal tuition with several other states (you pay the resident rate).
2007-09-15 15:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by CarbonDated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really are a spoiled little brat that needs a dose of reality
First off your room shouldn't be a mess - there is no reason what so ever to have a messy room - you (i assume) were taught how to pick up after yourself (try doing it once in awhile) you think your college room mate is gonna wanna live with a pig in a pigsty?
Secondly your family wanting to spend time with you for supper every night shows they car and love you and want to make sure you are eating right and that you get some time with them (that's a good thing do you have any idea how many people cry nightly there mom or dad ignores them, or is dead, or abandoned them?)
Lastly - if your in such a bad mood cause you broke up with your boyfriend try talking to them, tell them you are upset and would like to be left alone for a day or two to deal with it...if you don't talk tot hem about your problems you cannot expect them to know what is going on - the fact that you act like this tells me you are not only spoiled but you are very immature as well.
Grow up - be mature and responsible and maybe your parents will treat you more grown up - but when you rant like a 12 yr old and keep a messy room like an 8 yr old you cannot expect them to treat you like you are 15 or 16
2007-09-15 15:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by Finchy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They are your parents and you live in their house. There's not a lot that can be done. I hope you feel better after your little rant and rave. It won't change anything though. Just remember, you're parents aren't gonna be around forever. I felt the exact same way you do when I was a teenager. Now, I am very close to my mother and realize what a wonderful person she is. I treasure every moment that I have with her because I know that someday she won't be here. I don't want to look back and regret a single thing. Try and be patient with them. They are human too. If it bothers you that much, try having a rational discussion with them. If that doesn't work, remember that you will eventually be able to leave home. Its not like you are doomed to spend the rest of your life under their care. One of these days you'll be grown, have your own children and all your own responsibilities. Its then that you'll realize exactly why your parents are the way they are.
**In response to your last edit, no one (so far) has called you a "little brat" nor told you to "grow up" and I don't see one single response in which anyone referred to you as a "little kid". You are simply misunderstanding what most of us are saying. That happens a lot when we're in foul moods. Since you continued to rant and rave though, now you DO sound like a brat and you DO need to grow up. I'm sure everything will be better soon though. Just try to see things outside of your own little box from time to time.
2007-09-15 15:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am the mom of 5 kids age 12-27. Being a parent is just as hard as being a teenager. I know I have days when my kids don't like me and there are days where I don't like them either. But as a parent no matter what happens you love your kids, they are what makes you whole and I would be lost without one of them. Love doesn't mean having to agree. I know as a teenager I got angry at my mom and thought some the same things you thought. I even moved out once for about a week. My mom now only has a couple of months to live because of cancer and I have already lost my dad. I find it hard to imagine a world without my mom, even as a parent in the 4-0's, it's nice to have someone who loves you unconditionally to talk too.
2007-09-15 15:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by the_lintons2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Save this question somewhere and read it 5-6 years from now, you will probably feel real stupid. If the internet was available when I was your age I would be saying the same things u are. Just deal, go to your happy place, smoke some weed, no dont do that, thats what I do. Do better in school and maybe you can get accepted at a college far far away.
2007-09-15 15:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are very frustrated right now. It is totally normal. You are growing and changing and wanting more independence. It's hard for us parents to acknowledge our little children are growing up sometimes. I'm sure your parents aren't trying to do these things to annoy you or be nosy. They just want to have an open relationship with their child. Even if you go away to college and only see them a couple of weeks/year they will still worry about you and care about what is going on in your life. And believe it or not, you will actually start to miss that about them. I know it seems like that is a bunch of bull **** right now but trust me, it's true. Try to stay close to your parents because they really do care. I remember being a teenager and those years are NOT easy!!! I'm sure your parents think that too. They may not tell you that because they want you to understand that their lives aren't easy either (paying bills, going to work everyday, responsibilities, etc). It sounds like you come from a very nice family that wants to still eat dinner together and actually cares about what is going on in your life. Try talking to your mom or dad about breaking up with your boyfriend because it's obvious that you really cared about him and you are hurting. You need someone to hug you and your mom would be the perfect person for that. Go to her right now and talk to her about your feelings. I know you're not a brat and you really are a good person. It's just hard going to school and dealing with all of the pressures of being a teenager along with getting good grades. Good luck in life and take care. Cheer up! Life gets better, trust me! :o) I survived adolescents and so will you....
2007-09-15 15:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job and move out now. Try to make it on your own. Pay your own rent, electric, water, insurance, and other bills. Buy yourself a car. Pay for upkeep, gas, and insurance. And then, put yourself through college at any location that you choose! Quit being a brat. Develop a better attitude. Respect your parents and their rules. Clean your room and show up at the dinner table w/ a smile on your face. Try being "friendly" w/ your parents. You'll be surprised at how well things go if you follow your parents advice.
2016-05-20 22:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are times when I felt like that, but now that I have my own baby, I think different. There comes a time when you will realize that they love you and would do anything for you. I'm sure you have bad habits that annoy them, we all do. But they are not going to wish to get away from you. Know what I mean? It may be a phase you're going through... I think all teenagers go through that, I did, not too long ago. Just be patient and maybe you'll change your mind.
2007-09-15 15:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by New mommy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your in a rut, in a family thats BORING! well you must be young and going through afew hard times and, personally, i am still like that at 27! i always had a messy room growing up that my mum would go nuts over it, infact she didnt do squat for me growning up! yeah parents are so 1950's man, its not funny! with the white picket fence and "Hows' your day honey" ? gimme a break. And as for your dad. Tell him to eat like a grown man and not slurp his food!! personally i hate LOUD chewing noise eaters!! LOL
i can stay mad for a long time too im so good at it, it can lead me into depression and thats not good!
its hard in the mean time to keep your sanity until your old enough to leave home, i know. but hang in there chick!
2007-09-15 16:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by dot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea how you feel, I get along with my parents and enjoy spending time with them especially my mom, I can talk to her about anything. I think maybe you should try a little harder to get along with them you might just find a good friend in them...they are just trying to understand you, and as far as your dad's abnoxious noises - everyone has bad habits
2007-09-15 15:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by annie w. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋