I have been in a relationship for 14 months now. I just started my freshman year at college and I can't stop thinking about being single and how much freedom I could have. My boyfriend loves me so much, and I love him too. He is so sweet to me and caring, but he can be so smothering and needy! I think part of the reason is that he has started to sense my slow detachment from our relationship. I also feel irritated by him a lot, just because I am internally angry that I can't be single. I used to have so much fun with him all the time, and I felt "addicted" to his love. I still love him a lot and have fun times with him, and if I broke up with him I feel like I would never find someone like him again. We are eachother's first loves, and he wants to marry me someday. I just don't know what to do! If I stay with him I feel like I might miss out on college life , and if I break up with him I would be throwing away someone who loves me more than anything and is my best friend...I'm so torn!
2007-09-15 13:02:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you want to give up love for fun? And what fun do you miss out in college if your not single...sex. So are you saying you'd give up on love just to be a slut for a couple years? Guess you could have that fun, but i think it's safe to say another good guy won't want you after that(and that's on top of you not catching a STD or having a baby).
You could just take the best of both worlds..stay with him and cheat on him.
2007-09-17 00:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋