ok i think i like this girl thats 2 years yunger then me she alredy has a bf but she doesnt like him she likes some kid that keeps turnin her down that shes like for 12 months.I might ask her out but i dont think she likes me like she doesnt like her bf now and other people in my grade would make fun of me for goin out with her cuz shes 2 years yunger what should i do?
2007-09-15 12:30:35 · 9 answers · asked by jeff m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who cares what the other people thinks.
Just ask her out. You're strong enough to deal with the consequences.
2007-09-15 12:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference simply doesn't matter. I spent many years without a date throughout middle and high school because I was too scared of what people might think if I asked out someone younger than me. It's your life and you should do what you want, and as long as you're not hurting anyone else then you have nothing to be ashamed about.
2007-09-15 19:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is what are your ages. If you are 16 and she is 14 that is a big difference. If you are 20 and she is 18 it's not. If she doesn't like her current BF then you should go for it. Don't worry what your friends think as long as she is at least a freshman in high school. If she doesn't like you then you've lost nothing except the effort of trying.
2007-09-15 19:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by J S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this girl, ask her out! And don't pay attention to what people say. And i'm sure her and her bf will end up breaking up with each other sooner or later. she'll realize he's not a good guy. I think you should start hanging out with her and see how it goes. Like, become friends with her and stuff. Maybe she'll dump her bf once you guys start hanging out. Play it cool when you're with her too. And make sure you be yourself. Cause girls hate it when guys act face. I really hope this works for you.
Good luck!
2007-09-15 19:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by katelynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two years in the life of a teenager is a negligible difference, especially since you're a male (we're dumber than they are, you know, and it takes us a good while to catch up). My second point: you're going to spend a lot of unhappy days here on earth if you make your decisions for your life based on what other people think. If you like her, that should be good enough. (If that's not good enough, don't waste her time or yours, but come back when you can think independently from the crowd). Good luck in your decision....choose wisely.
2007-09-15 19:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead! ask her out!
who cares what everyone else thinks! i meen like in the real world when you get older most marriages have big gaps. like for example my mom is 4 years younger than my dad! and i know someones mom who is 6 years older than the dad. so just go ahead and ask her out! screw everyone else!
2007-09-15 19:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Nothing but the Lies =/ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she doesnt even think about you like that. so you should ask her out.. the worst thing that can happen is she says no
2007-09-15 19:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by iamwinning 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow big deal!!! she 2 years younger!
who gives ****!
2007-09-15 19:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mayra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooo tuff....well i think you should stay really good friends w/ her...but wen u think the time is right u ask her out! and who cares wat other ppl think all that matters is wat u think of urself
good luck!
2007-09-15 19:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋