i need to know how to get my two boys to stop wetting the bed ??/..one is 8 and the other is 6?

Answer 1

First of all - DON'T punish them. Bed wetting can be a sign of a significant medical condition. Your first step is to take them to their pediatrician and have them refer you to a ped. urologist. They can do many tests and let you know if this is medical or psychological.

Sometimes, children might accidentally wet the bed once and from then on become so stressed out about it it continues to happen. in this case they need to see a counselor alone and with you.

The most important thing is to let them know that this doesn't change how you feel about them, that you still love them with all your heart. You would be surprised at the number of children that are convinced that they are not loved because of something like this. So try to focus on other things. Before bedtime set a certain time when they can no longer drink liquids. Don't make a big issue about it at bedtime. They are probably thinking about it anyway. Kids don't like waking up to wet smelly sheets anymore than we like changing them so they truly want to solve this problem. Don't forget to hug them and tell them you love them often.

Best wishes - I will say a prayer
God bless
fishergirl

Answer 2

particular my youngest son is 13 and he nevertheless wets his mattress, he has aspergers syndrome with ADhD and dyspracxa, replaced into given some pills to take and as quickly as taken he should not drink after that brought about a huge subject coz he's hyperactive i can not save him in his room and no i wont lock his door close like one Dr instructed me as quickly as to realize this i ended him taking the pills, i've got asked for help and get none, and particular i'm procuring the huggies drynites interior the shops yet I even have additionally got here upon pampers do a dry sheet it is going over the mattress yet under the mattress-sheet and that they are approximately £7 for 7 in a %. and used with the huggies drynites they save his mattress dry so i shouldn't might desire to interchange this one for a whilst i wish, the dr did say it ran in family members's yet my different 3 little ones in no way gave me a moist mattress from 18 months of a while.

Answer 3

My boys had the same problem. I took them to the doc just to be sure there were no medical problems. The doc said that when they are that young and they are asleep, it is almost as though they are knocked out. They sleep very heavily at that age and it just happens. Make sure you don't make them feel bad about it. We had mattress protectors on their beds. Also, we left out a set of clean underwear and pajamas and a sleeping bad so they could change and have a dry place to sleep if they had an accident. They could always come and tell us of course, but after I found them shivering and balled up on the floor a couple times because they didn't want to wake us, I decided on this option.

Answer 4

I agree with fishergirl. my best friend had that problem growing up and she was about 10 when she stopped wetting the bed due to medical problems she had. Until then she just always wore pullups to bed and eventually outgrew her bed wetting problems.

Answer 5

First start with taking a look at their liquid intake before bed. Cut them off 2 to 3 hour before bedtime would be a good start.
Also...are they just lazy maybe? Nicely...make them strip their sheets and put new ones on, they may realize that it's easier to walk to the toilet then to put the bedding on and off.

They are old enough to do this on their own.

If that doesn't work then I would talk to your peditrician.

Hope it works.

Answer 6

well dont be mean to the kid kids really want to watch you first then let them go in the bathroom alon then check on then tell them they get a hotwheel car every time you go on the potty or candy or sticker putting water when the kids on the putty put it in the area wear the peeing when thier sitting done that help to i tryed it show them how to wipe to or use wipe just go on easy on the kide or the get scared at night ya its hard get a pad for thier bed in it acures until the kid does go to the bathroonm they do have get the night diper to they help well it take a while ask the kid before it goes to bes to go to the bathroom at no drink before bed this will help cause my docter told me that ok drinks daring the day well i hope this works for you ok

Answer 7

Cut off liquids 3 hours before bed and or have them eat a spoonful of peanut butter before bed.

Answer 8

ma 7 yr old boi and girl did this they stoped wenn we gave um treats n a stiker chart eg 3 stikers ech = toy. i watch parantin programes like nanny 911 it helps :)

Answer 9

Stop their liquids at 7PM