My girlfriend has a good job that supports us both. I stay at home and do all the household chores. Lately she has become somewhat controlling and often critical of my chores. She makes me redo the ironing or reclean a room if it is not up to her standards. She also wont let me handle any money because she says I am to irresponsible. Recently she told me I have to wear panties since she wears the pants and even made me show her freinds what I was wearing. I've tried to talk to her but she just says that this is how it is and sometimes slaps me. Since I dont have any job or money I cant leave and I still care about her. What should I do?
2007-09-15 08:24:47 · 23 answers · asked by timmy h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to go find your balls. Might check under the sink, you could have left them there while you were throwing away your manhood.
Dude, why don't you have a job? Has it been your dream since boyhood to grow up and be a house wife? I doubt it. She is being a b*tch because she feels she is entitled to do so....not saying that she is entitled, but that's not really the point. She has all the power, and is liking the power trip. Is she still sleeping with you? If she is, don't get used to it....she will be holding that out before too long.
2007-09-15 08:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by smellyfoot ™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, your current girlfriend may or may not have a point. Consider this: how would you feel if your current girlfriend was spending some time with an ex boyfriend? Even if you would think it is okay she does not, and part of loving a person is considering what makes them feel uncomfortable and doing the opposite. Changing and doing things that another person likes does not necessarily mean that you are changing who you are; it just means that you are taking another persons feelings, likes, or dislikes into consideration. (Normally when in a relationship such as this, this is the case) My advice: Limit your contact with your ex girlfriend. Your ex girlfriend is in your past and your current girlfriend is your present. Am not saying or suggesting you should dismiss your ex girlfriend altogether but your ex should be treated the same way you would treat another guy friend. (it should strictly just be friendship from afar; given the history you guys have with one another.) Hope things work out, and I hope this advice helped.
2016-05-20 03:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh ...I so hate it !! She is emotionally abusing you and she obviously don't love you anymore if she is embarrassing you in front of her... friends.. If you and her has an understandment you do the household chores and she works.. the money while she made it still is ours..not 'hers' and not 'mines' its only ours' so if she cant think along that line..leave her she is absusive ..it may not be phyically but the emotionally is just as bad..
there are plenty...plenTY of women who prefers to works and and someone to cook and clean ..
kick her to the curb..someone is boosting her up to act like this. But before you do this find you a job and a place and show her you can do this with out her.too...
good luck
2007-09-15 08:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's abuse, sweetheart, if I ever heard it. Extreme emotional and even some physical abuse. I would quit cleaning the house completely. I wouldn't do a damn thing. She'll come around. And in the meantime, find a job, even a low paying one, and try to save up some money... sounds like you might need it soon. Good luck
2007-09-15 08:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by sskstru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetely an abusive relationship... I know that as a man this is not a typical problem, but reverse the roles. If you were her, and you behaved towards her like she does you what would people say? Start bucking her system - get a job, get your own life, show that you don't "need" her and move on if need be.
2007-09-15 08:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by chrissy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're not comfortable with any of it then you have to bounce. If it feels good, then stick with it.
If you want to balance the equation, then go out and get a job. Bring in some money, because only then will you have any sort of bargaining posture.
2007-09-15 08:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sci-Fi Jones 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a very important job. Your job is being a good biatch. Keep up the good work. Slap em again, he's been on the computer with us. LOLOLOLOLOL
2007-09-15 08:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sees you as a ***** so she is treating you like one. Man up and get a job so you can stop taking her crap. I'd just dump the ***** if I were you. Being single is way better than what you just described.
2007-09-15 08:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg! how can you care about someone who treats you like her b$%#*! She sounds like your mother, not your frikin girlfriend. how dumb. you need to get out of that relationship, find a good job, and get an appt with someone. Or just be honest with her to see if she will change. Good luck. =]
2007-09-15 08:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's amazing how crazy some people can be and not know what to do.
Common sense would be to tell her it's over and get off your *** and get a job and stop doing **** for her.
2007-09-15 08:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋