making out?

Question

i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for like 2 weeks and the first time we kissed was all off and bad. so i was really nervous that i was going to mess up again and we just made out the other night and it was HORRIBLE. he was fine, but i didnt do anything at all, he even told me i was bad.. which is the worst. so i cannot mess up again and it really sucks because i dont know what to do! any advice on not messing up during making out?!

Answer 1

OH MY GOSH LOL :]] Alot of people arent the best kissers, so i wouldnt put your self in a whole lot of stress about it BUT a guy loves a good kisser :]] I would ask him to teach you, im sure he would just LOVE THAT LOL. If you dont want to ask him then ill give you some advice and some things I've done :]]

First things first: When your about to make out he'll probably come close to you & tilt his head toward you & close his eyes. This is your sign girl, GET YOUR LIPS READY, OH YES!! LOL. Tilt your head aswell, but just slighty NOT where u look like someone with a dislocated head cause iv'e known people who took the advice " tilt your head " and they REALLLYYY tilted there head like where it looked FUNNY. LOL then put your lips on his & be gentle.

You know how people say pucker up? Well, when you put your lips agianst him you should take that advice & PUCKER UP BABY :]] LOL.

Next thing: You wanna be able to go with the flow. You may be like GO WITH THE FLOW -- SAY WHATTT?? LOL well just open your mouth & close it. That sounds wierd but when people kiss they close & open there mouth ... they GO WITH THE FLOW, they let it ROLL. :]] Make sure your lips are puckered but not where you look like your trying to hard. Just RELAX. You can also nibble on there lower lip.

Nexttt: Tongue.
If your boyfriend gives you tongue, then LET HIM lol, its PRETTYYY HOTT. While your kissing you can play with eachotheres tongue. Its fun :]] & it makes it a whole lot more exicting.

Also, some girls dont know where to hold there boyfriends while kissing. I put my arms around his neck and just lie them there and he puts his hands on your hips, sometimes guys do different but thats his desicison and where you put your arms is your desicison :]] Just dont lie them there where you look like your in a walking position.

Hope this helped :]]
-Kayla.

Answer 2

Personally I would say the problem is his fault, obviously he is rushing things. My advice would be to not try too hard, if it is the right time and place (and with the right guy) it will be ok. Maybe you don't really want to make out with this guy. This is OK, if he insists, dump him. Anyone that doesn't respect your wishes is NOT someone you want to date. The fact that he told you that you were "bad" is a good indication you should be going out with someone else. The point of a relationship is not for the girl to "prove she is worthy of his notice" (which is what "making sure I don't mess up" is all about). If he were any good at all, he would be considerate of your apparent lack of experience and help you. Sounds like he is a pig to me, and if he is so very much more experienced than you, you are just another notch in his bedpost.

Answer 3

If Ur bf told u, u was bad. he's not very mature, cause he'd be guiding u through it.

Making out isn't a explaining think, it has 2 be learned by doing. Not every1 is good at it, but seems like more communication is needed in the relationship 2 accomplished what ur looking 4.

Ask him what he like and tell him what u like. By communicating ur'll have a better harmonious out come.

Answer 4

OMG, you seem like me, lol yeah its weird when its your first kiss...hmmm well if he knows that its your first kiss he'd understand and maybe you should play around a bit and tell him if he can teach you, i'm sure it'll get better, i mean i've also been going out w/ my bf for two weeks and we've only made out twice...are u sure you're not me? lol but yeah the first kiss was funny actually because i just started cracking up and the second time was a little better and i'm counting on a third today lol...and i'm sure he wont stay away from u because of a bad kiss...guys aren't that judgemental and picky like us girls are...maybe you should try going at it slowly no rush...just take a time to caress his face then just start kissing slowly and stuff idk, watch romance movies..and yeah i know it looks easy but when it comes down to it...its actually kinda hard isn't it? lol.....omg good stuff

Answer 5

Do it softly and slowly. Gently suck on his lower and upper lip, nibbling once every so often. Run your hands slowly up his chest until you reach the nape of his neck. Rest your hands there. It'll feel good if he rests his hands on your hips or move his hands slowly up your arms, but that's his choice.

If you're the dominant type, you can tell him to suck on your tongue(in a seductive kind of way, of course).

Honestly, I think it's kind of mean for him to tell you that you're bad. I mean, jeez, if he's so good he should be teaching you to be a better kisser instead of beating you down. Maybe you should wait a couple more weeks before you guys decide to make out again.

Answer 6

You can only be so bad. I remember the worst kisser of my life. OMIGOD he had this suction thing going on, and I swear I think he dislocated my tongue! Just relax. Tell he that you've never really kissed anyone, you're nervous, and that you want him to teach you how. It can be fun, but stick to kissing. You don't sound like you're old enough to go farther than that.

Answer 7

Tell him that you realize you aren't the greatest but that you would love for him to show you a few new tricks... he'll be all over the idea of "teaching" you how to make out...
If you're not comfortable with that, then I would suggest to just relax, it's something that will eventually come very naturally. Good luck, Hun!

Answer 8

Two weeks in not enough for all that making out, listen to your heart. Do not be push in doing anything you do not want to do. And if said you were bad , to me that is a way for him to tell you hurry up lets go on to the next step. It not worth your repertation for a simple kiss. Ask your self thsi question is he worth your headach, or your heart break. Do not be pressured it is your rules not his.

Answer 9

You have to "compliment" his kissing style. I don't mean tell him he's good or whatever, but match the opposite of his technique. If he's aggressive, then be demure. If he's demure, you need to be aggressive.

And that's only if you're comfortable with any and all of it. Don't be pressured into making out because if you do give in, it's gonna be HORRIBLE regardless of how you think it went.

Answer 10

maybe u are making out with the wrong guy. if you have feelings and emotions coming from inside you.... it will not be bad. he just is not the one to bring out the fire. also maybe u r making out too soon.. maybe you should wait until you mature more. you do not practice to be good.. that would be like studying for a role in a movie or play. just acting. this is something that has to be felt.