people will ask that of me???...One of my friends asked if i went to bed with so and so?...I said, No, but that is personal...in a calm voice...DO THEY REALIZE they are invading your privacy? Do they realize that was a personal question?...Should you STOP hanging out with someone who would ASK personal questions?...because i find it annoying. I need to know WHERE TO DRAW THE LINE!
2007-09-15 08:04:56 · 4 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
The point is, they DO NOT realize they are doing anything wrong. You have to set standards for yourself and draw the line. It is YOUR responsibility to do that. Expecting them to know better obviously doesn't cut it with your friends.
2007-09-15 16:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Say "yeah, did him twice, his brother once, working on his dad next", or "No, I'd rather go to bed with you" (even if the person is the same gender or not".
When their jaw hits the floor, say "who I sleep with is personal and you are really rude to ask that", or "just kidding.".
2007-09-15 11:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply say I don't appreciate discussing my very privat life. Do I ask you those kind of questions. If they continue tell them you do not feel comfortable and do not think of them as a friend acting this way.
2007-09-15 08:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by lighthousecastle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that everybody is a little nosy, so don't let your friends go if they ask you one personal question. maybe say (nicely) to mind their own business. or maybe just don't say anything at all.
hope that helps :D
2007-09-15 08:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋