shes 22 im 21 she looks a little rough but i like her very much how do i ask her out
2007-09-15 08:01:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start by saying,you look a little rough but can I ask you something?
2007-09-15 08:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by Spotlight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if you are 21, i would hope by now that you have asked at least one person out. If you have never had a date (which is ok, it isn't that abnormal), don't just fall for the first girl to come along. If you reek of desperation, all you are going to get is the "rough" girls. Then again, we all have to start somewhere.
If you have dated before (i'm not sure why you wouldn't know how to ask someone out then) just casually ask her if she wants to go out some time. Make sure she knows what you mean.
By the way, you can't love someone you have never dated. You probably just have a crush on her. Learn to tell the difference or you will end up with some problems down the road.
2007-09-15 15:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by jackdaniels16555 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with doing this in writing. You could do it on IM, because there you have some time to think about responses and get the wording right. You could also go with a hand-written letter. You can write it as many times as you want before picking the one that sounds just right. Good luck.
2007-09-15 15:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by highball116 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters be yourself. Lies at the beginning of a relationship just build up until the relationship collapses. Then get to know her a bit and tell her how you feel or just ask her out on a date. But be appealing to her. If she likes comedy, be funny about it, if she likes a serious down to earth person, be serious and down to earth about telling her how you feel. You never know what a person is like on the inside until you get to know them so don't rush into anything and scare her.
Don't forget everyone is human, so just ask her if she would maybe like to go out sometime. The worst she can say is no.
2007-09-15 15:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by *Angel* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love her if you haven't lived with her or known her enough...it's simply just lust
If she's rough, you probably want to be smooth cause there has to be a contrast...but take her for what she is and don't try to change her
You can always try to to ask her for dinner and take her to a nice restaurant that she wouldn't dream of going to and be a gentleman...this would definitely work! Or let's say, 99% just in case ;)
Good luck dude
2007-09-15 15:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Well Cultured 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first don't be a wuss! Ask her friends where she goes and turn up! Say hi stay with her for a moment or two and then say yer going unless she buys you a drink! Its quite likley if you say that in a light hearted cheeky way, she'll amazed. Love and War are very similar a Lover does not want a wuss and since it can get very war like in relationships you'll be starting off strong. Your a man act like one....
2007-09-15 15:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to clarify, you do not love her if you haven't even been out.
Just ask her. At 22, she has been asked on dates before, so it shouldn't be too hard.
If it still makes you nervous, just ask her for a casual impromptu dinner or lunch.
Also, don't mention the looking rough part to her and definitely do not mention "love" at all. Just let her know you like her.
2007-09-15 15:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by maxmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wanting to ask her out is not the same as being in love with her.
dont start with i love you.
and you cant like her very much if you think she looks rough... beauty is in the eye of the beholder after all.
just be casual, but please dont play games. just ask the woman out
2007-09-15 15:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by LBB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being with someone is a process... if you are already at the "i love her" stage and you haven't even gone out...you are in for a rough ride of your own. good relationships are built one step at a time. Get to know each other, get comfortable in each other's presence, talk about yourselves, each other... build one step at a time.
if you think of it as one big leap, you will fail and fall.
2007-09-15 15:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by meitay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop hints! find out what she likes and casually ask her out to do those things.
say she likes action movies, why dont you pretend your cousin got two extra tickets and since she likes action movies, does she wanna watch it with you or stuff like that.
try it. but different things work for different people so be sure to really know what type of girl is she.
2007-09-15 15:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by Hena A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋