If a long time g/f tells you that she loves you and needs you and then the very next day you find out from her dad that she is back with the person she has been cheating on you with, what would you do? If you took her back three times before how would you feel? Even when I spoke to her at that persons house she told me that she loves me. She cannot really love me if she got pregnant along with an abortion (i didn't do it) could she? What is she thinking, thats what I really want to know. Thanks.
2007-09-15 08:00:02 · 7 answers · asked by cappatown23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Quit letting her use you for a doormat. Walk away today and never look back while you still have some self-esteem remaining. How could you take her back after 3 times she's cheated? End it today. Go find yourself a nice girl that will love and respect you. Then she won't cheat either. You really need to think about why you would take her back. She was never sorry she cheated, only sorry she got caught cheating. Big difference.
2007-09-15 08:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds young and immature.
I bet she doesn't yet really have a clue of what she wants. I don't think you are going to be able to prevent her from keeping her relationship going with this other guy.
I strongly suggest you keep your distance from her. At least for now and let her decide on her own. Be blunt when you tell her, no more games, she needs to choose him or you because she isn't going to have both.
You may lose her, but then again, you never really had her anyway. Sorry, I don't have a happy-ever-after answer for you. Someday, she may come around. Not today.
2007-09-15 15:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by peggy m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is she's not thinking. She playing the Field as we use to say. She has you wrapped around a finger and want to see what else she can snag.By you taking her back THREE times tells her that you are crazy about her to belittle yourself and bow at her heals, which is what she wants.
Stand tall and walk away from her. She needs no explanation, she won't even miss you.
Keep her actions in mind when you get started dating again, and stay away from girls like that.
You want someone to love you for who and what you are. Not what they can bend you into.
Good Luck.
2007-09-15 15:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You apparently aren't getting her message so let me help you understand something.
She doesn't love you. She has no respect for you. She knows she can do anything at all to you and you will simply take it.
At some point you have to ask yourself if you actually deserve this and if this is the best you can do. If so, then bend over.
2007-09-15 16:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You just need to move on and find u someone thats not crazy in the head...And not married.
2007-09-15 15:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by lady bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you keep asking the same question about this same girl and her scandalous ways, and you keep getting the same answers: LET HER GO!
2007-09-15 16:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by made it to the top 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read "its called a breakup because it's broken".
2007-09-15 15:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by duh baby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋