i am pregnant with our daughter and i am so lost.
2007-09-15 06:28:56 · 33 answers · asked by thetruth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't really explain to you what you have to do as all the ends are tied and decisions are final just go to the doctor and ensure that you are checked up and taking all the right prescriptions if needed for a start,then tell your family or even close friends about your situation so then can offer you help and support,if you need any professional help with these problems then you can ring your local phone centre and the should give you the right medically correct information and offer you advice on what to do,I wish you the best of luck for the future for you and your child.
2007-09-15 06:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by Classy Clarissa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you've already been to the Dr and got medicine right? Chlamydia is a common STD that has little or no symptoms. The scary part is that he had unprotected sex with at least one other person and then you two had unprotected sex (I'm assuming no codom, but we all know they can break). This means that you could have something else as well. Hopefully you both have learned your lesson...now it's time to move on.
You're pregnant with his child, you both need to decide how to be the best parents that you can. IF you want to continue the sexual relationship you need to have a long talk. Did he cheat? If he did can you forgive him? If he did can he be faithful in the future?
If he didn't cheat- yes it's possible-he could have had this before you two had sex and not known it, then that's much easier to deal with. You can't be very angry with him for giving you clamydia if he didn't cheat. You BOTH have had unprotected sex.
Whatever happens in your love life, you have to continue to deal with him for your child. Sadly whats done is done, learn from it and get on with your life. Good luck!
2007-09-15 06:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by vondalecki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and formost seek medical treatment for you and your unborn.
Everyone jumps to conclusions that he cheated. Clamydia is an std that can be in the body for a very long time before it shows any symptoms. He may have been a carrier of it for a very long time. Maybe got it from his last girlfriend. You do need to speak with him though to find out for sure that he is being faithful. You also need to make sure he is treated for it because even if you get medical treatment, he will only pass it back to you.
Good Luck Honey and congrats on the baby.
2007-09-15 06:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by TiaRanita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your OB/GYN or a Gynecologist immediately because you are pregnant. You need to go see a doctor ASAP because that STD could affect your unborn child.
Tell the doctor what your BF did and that you a pregnant.
Get tested for AIDS and other STDs as well.
As for your BF, you might want to go stay somewhere else like a friends house or a close relatives house and get away from him for a while. You need to focus on and care about your unborn child first and foremost now. Your baby should be your first prioirty above everything else. Good luck to you
2007-09-15 06:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by Warrior Guardian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you should inform him of this if he isn't already aware. Secondly you both should inform other partners, if there were any, that they need to be checked also. Then a good conversation with your doctor to have him put your mind at ease regarding this STI. It's sad but happens so often and this disease is rapidly becoming the number one STI. Best of luck and remember that if you in the future have other partners to let them know that you indeed have this and practice safe sex.
2007-09-15 06:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't went to the doctor yet then you should and let them know. My daughter had chlamydia a long time ago and did not know it until the doctor told her. She was given medication and it went away. I don't think that it will affect the baby so go to your doctor as soon as possible for medication.
2007-09-15 06:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor. Get treated! Chlamydia can be treated with antibiotics.
Then you need to talk to him, get him treated, find out how he GOT it. Did he cheat on you? It sounds like you 2 may have a lot of issues to work through before your daughter is born
2007-09-15 06:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by buddys_angeleyes 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
1. get treated
2. confront him - makes sure he understand you won't tolerate that stuff (I assume fidelity issue and you've had sex with him in the past). It could have been worse thank god it wasn't.
3. Will you marry him? You've got a child coming. If not you may want to cut loose. You cannot afford that kind of exposure in the future.
2007-09-15 06:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by true_value5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you sure sound mixed up. You might try working on your priorities, like getting married to a decent guy, someone without social diseases, who has a job, before bring an innocent life into your screwed up life.
I'll bet he has the whole project infected...
2007-09-15 06:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the nearest health department and get treatment.
Get tested for every STD known to man including HIV
Dump his sorry Behind
Make a life yourself and your child
But allow him to be a father if he will
2007-09-15 06:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by ACCOUNT CLOSED 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋