So there is this boy Nick hes dating this girl Jackie. Nick cheated on jackie bu having sex with a girl named Jill. My boyfriend is very close friends with Jackie so should i tell my boyfriend and have him tell jackie? or should i tell jackie? or should i just keep my mouth shut? im friends with Jill and Jackie. Everyone hates nick. But i dont want to loose jill as a friend because me and her have been friends for 5 years. Please Help!
2007-09-15 06:27:15 · 13 answers · asked by brown_eyed_beauty_1011 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not sure how exactly you found this out, so have some real proof that he did this. You should tell Jackie first, however there is a good chance she wont believe you since every one hates the guy already. Defiantly break the news to her, then if she doesn't believe you try getting your boyfriend to help or even Jill to tell her, (though there will probably be a fight if Jill tells her). Good luck.
As for staying out of it, how would you feel if you found out Jackie knew your boyfriend cheated on you but she never told you?
2007-09-15 06:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tough one!
Would you rather see your friend hurt when she finds out that you knew?
Does Jill know about Nick and Jackie?
I think you need to talk to Jackie and jill at the same time. They will understand!
2007-09-15 13:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think you shuld definitely not have your boyfriend tell jackie, girls handle things better from other girls, not guys. Dont' keep your mouth shut either. then theres a chance that you would lose both of them because you knew, and still dint tell either of them. i htink you should sit each of them down and calmly explain what's happening. be as sensitive as possible. let jill know you will always be by her side for the most of it, and let jakie know htat nick is cheating on her.
2007-09-15 13:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by we_are_waiting 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want to loose Jill's friendship then don't interfere in her sex life. Zip ur mouth abt her relationship with Jackie.
good luck.
2007-09-15 13:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by Akar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if everyone hates nick, you should tell your bf and he will tell his friend jackie and its all good cuz nick is a douche bag and needs to die. jk jk but im sure i would want to know if i were jackie if my bf cheated on me
2007-09-15 13:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
tell them. both together. thats not being a friend if you dont. what if he does it again and she finds out and also finds out that u didnt tell her. that could ruin it for all of u. not only would she bet upset bout the cheating but u also being her friends didnt tell her.
2007-09-15 13:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Bob Saget 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just stay out of it. They'll wind up causing enough problems for themselves without you being in the middle of things.
2007-09-15 13:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie F 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Stay out! Ignore that two faced lying backstabbing jerk.
2007-09-15 13:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
u must tell...i mean would u wanna be left in the dark and have everybody else know what was up if it were u in this situation?
2007-09-15 13:40:02 · answer #9 · answered by john m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it happens, when people get clickish everybody has sex with everybody, hell go have sex with nick lol
2007-09-15 13:34:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋