I was at a party with my friends. My girl was cool with it. I came home late unaware of the time till i got back to my dorm room. I didnt call or go over because I knew she had class early in the morning. The next day she was mad at me for not calling or going over. Is she right or just over jealous?
2007-09-15 06:23:25 · 16 answers · asked by danman232k7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From who's perspective?
From her own, undoubtedly
If you had her perspective, you would have called.
Apologize, explain why you didn't call, (you thought you were being considerate), make up, and try not to have the same misunderstanding.
It's not really about right or wrong, it's about communication.
Enjoy
2007-09-15 06:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK man, here is my advice for you. When you are in a relationship, you belong to that girl. You are hers no matter what you may think. You have to check in and out with her in everything you do. You may not believe me but the girl owns you.
Ok wait a minute...the real truth is this: 1. She wanted you to call her no matter what time it was because she wanted to make sure you got home safely. 2. She loves you and doesn't want to see you hurt...thats why you call her...3. she doesn't want a txt message or an IM from you at 2 in the morning...a call just to say you got home safely and for her to hear you say "Good Night, I love you"...and Number 4. See number 1...thats always a great reason for someone you love to call you.
Call her and say you're sorry and that you will call her no matter what time it is just to let her know you are ok and that you love her.
2007-09-15 13:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by davedgreat2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Danman, she is probably hurt more then anything else. That you were out having a good time without her and then didn't contact her when you got back. Regardless of whether you were late or not it would have been thoughtful to let her know of your return. She may have envisioned many things happening and not hearing from you may just have made this imagination wreck havoc even worse. Best of luck in trying to apologize and hopefully you two can discuss this as mature people and not get all blown out of proportion over it.
2007-09-15 13:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably worried about you! She knew you were going out and thats OK, but when you didn't give her a call she probably started worrying about your safety and things like that. Next time maybe just send her a TXT saying "Home now sweety, sleep tight" That way she'll know your OK but the txt won't wake her up as much as an all out phone call
2007-09-15 13:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by buddys_angeleyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be jealous, you know? Flip it around- she goes out to a party one night, and doesn't call you for the rest of the night? You think, 'what happened? is she okay? is she with someone else?' See? She was just worried, most likely.
2007-09-15 13:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by onfireoox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that was wrong of you. Pretty inconsiderate.
Think of it like this....She goes out and doesn't call you tilt he next morning. You have no way of knowing what time she got in and what she was doing before hand. How would that make you feel?
2007-09-15 13:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well...i'm not sure if she's right or over jealous because i don't her personality...but if you explain to her that it was late and you didn't want to bother her because of her early class i think she should understand that...
2007-09-15 13:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kaitey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her have some jealousy...it keeps the relationship going. try explaining to her that you knew she had class early morning
2007-09-15 13:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by Chewyconor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand her, just tell her that u dint call her coz u didn't want to disturb her sleep as she had classes next day morning...
shez not jealous, she just wants to talk to you...
next time if she wants to be disturbed at sleep. which she might want to. she might just want to talk to you even if shes sleep then do as she wishes....
cheers
2007-09-15 13:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by Akar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have at least sent a text message.
2007-09-15 13:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by Jamie F 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋