Iv'e heard alot of peole say just stop looking and it'll come to you?
I dont' believe it one bit! How is this suposed to happen when you just sit there?
2007-09-15 06:10:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree, sounds like bs. Put I've been looking and ain't found so maybe it is true. I think they just mean don't just actively look. Like go places trying to see can you fall in love. But keep an open mind and just enjoy life......I guess
2007-09-15 06:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, if you are literally sitting there doing nothing, then no, I don't see how it could be.
I believe that in a way it does happen though. If you are going about everyday life, not actually looking for someone, and enjoying yourself, you won't have pressure on yourself.
About 3 years ago, I gave up basically. I tried 'finding the one' but it always ended so badly, or didn't even happen and it was frustrating. I decided to just live life to its fullest and not worry about dating and so on. About 8 months later or so, out of the clear blue I met a great guy, we became instant friends and we soon were in a relationship. We have been together for 2 years, and I can't imagine being with anyone but him- he is the one for me. I never expected it to happen, but it did.
I think it happens differently for everyone. But I do truly believe it is possible for it to come when you least expect it.
2007-09-15 13:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does love fall into your lap when you least expect it? Only every freaking time!
Honestly, how many people have ever woke up in the morning knowing the day would end with love having *found* them? You just never know.
However you do need to leave the house in order for this to happen. I personally do not know of too many occasions where love either flew through the window or fell into ones lap from the ceiling.
good luck!
2007-09-15 13:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think you are expected to sit there and await for love to come a knockin at your door. But quite often when a person is out and not actually looking for a mate, usually when they look their worse, they happen upon a member of the opposite sex and sparks fly. Perhaps you'll be at a sporting event, or a library or whatever and meet someone there to melt your heart and you hers. Best of luck and don't give up on love because it's there for the taking when you find the right person or they find you.
2007-09-15 13:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe this very much to be true! When you are "looking", and there is nothing wrong with that it actually gives you the experience (good or bad) to know and recognize when it does "fall into your lap". The "right" person is like fishing (for example), your catch some and throw them back because they aren't the "big" one that you are fishing for in the first place. Patience! It will happen.
2007-09-15 13:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it definetely does. Actually, it's a bit half and half. If you have been looking at someone for a while, but then start thinking "okay I don't like them, I don't want to like them" but that doubt keeps coming back, then you're probably going to end up liking them. This happened to me and, unfortunately now I like one of my teachers. For about a year, I wasn't crushing on him, but I was craving his jokes more than anyone I knew. I thought I was going crazy, but then it ended up to be a little crush. Don't know how this happened, but it did and I couldn't help where my heart lead me. It's really not up to you. And you can't help your feelings. I still wish the teeniest bit I hadn't gotten a crush on him, but I can't help it. Just let God take your heart and guide it. I know that this crush isn't from God's guidance, because... well he's my teacher! hehe, but you will know because God will give you small hints. good luck!
2007-09-15 15:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not to mean just sit there it's go out have fun, but don't look for your next girlfriend. This guy after two years broke up with me, and right away I wanted a new boyfriend, I looked and looked and just couldn't find one that I liked, so I gave up and one night a guy came into my work and we hit it off, now were engaged. Love will find you.
2007-09-15 13:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by Ally... 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't "fall in your lap" and if you just "sit there" you'll get nothing but a crease in your pants...what they mean is to go forward and live life and not worry about finding a partner...make your single life awesome so you're having fun and feeling fulfilled and not worrying about whether or not you're dating...
When you are happy with your life and yourself, is when you'll be in the best position to be a good partner to someone else, and is when someone who'd make a good partner for you is more likely to cross your path. âº
2007-09-15 13:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Love is unpredictable! It happens when least expected! The more u look for it, the harder it is to find! Be patient. It will happen!
2007-09-15 13:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by alichs2002 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
that's what happened to me.. i didn't just sit there though... i decided "ok, that's it, i'm done looking for a solid boyfriend, i'm just going to flirt and date tons of guys" and as soon as i started doing that the perfect guy just popped up on my doorstep =]=] we've been together for a few months now and i'd love to spend forever w/ him...=]=]
good luck!
2007-09-15 13:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋