a study shows that most italian people would rather have a ugly partner that's good in bed than a beautiful one that's just ok.
but i'm not italian so to all the other guys out there...
what's more important? how gorgeous a girl is or how good she is in bed?
2007-09-15 05:48:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it goes half and half. your partner has to be at least a little attractive for you. If you are attracted to her physically that can bring the bed play up a level. She doesn't have to be stunning but if the guy isn't attracted to the girl, sex may not be possible to begin with.
2007-09-15 06:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by night_wolf_ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither are really that important in the grand scheme of things. Eventually people are going to end up losing their good looks whether they want to admit it or not. And in the sack people will usually learn how to pleasure their partner and themselves satisfactorily. What is important in my opinion is being able to communicate and being proud of the mate you have chosen regardless of how they may look to others.
2007-09-15 05:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im half italian, i want a woman who good lookin bc i can teach her the right thing in bed
2007-09-15 05:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be quiet and make me some lunch
2007-09-15 05:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go by looks.
2007-09-15 07:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Wyatt E. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol i have no idea
2007-09-15 05:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by Yum. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy crap! in tha case... im not to proud of my italien backgrounds!!!
well... i like a girl who is....
Personality) share some same interests as me (but not all same, differences are good) , that is nice... and doesnt look only on the outside when looking for a guy, she has to be not to peppy but not to shy... peppy enough to talk to me... and shy enough that if we go out... the whole school wont know in 3 minutes... and talkitive enough to speak to me and quiet enough to know when to shut up! (sorry, that was rude) and not to shy in relationships so i can actually hug her and hold hands...
Physically) well... i dont exactly look for physical when choosing a girl... physicality is just a bonus... well... i like a girl that is short... not to short but still shorter then me... at about... the top of her head being at the same height as my neck (just above my chest) and with golden brown hair... not blond.... but brown with gold streaks... a nice, cute face with an addorable smile and nose... peirced ears but no other body part... she likes wearing neckalces... and... well... as any normal guy... average sized breasts... i dont mean to seem... i dunno... but men do like girls with breasts... its definatly not EXTREMLY important but i do like feeling them against my chest when i hug her =)
heres a chart showing what most ppl look for when looking for a mate
1)fat or skinny
2)shy or outgoing
3) tall or short
4)talkative or quiet
heres how i answer this chart...
1) doesnt matter... inside that counts (unless you weigh 600 pounds and need a crane to get into Dr. Phil's studio)
2) a mix of both, to shy that wont even talk to you, or run away from you at school is definatly not good and one who is always to busy to spend time with you isnt good either... so a good mix of both is perfect
3) horny and sick minded guys prefer taller girls so they can stick their face in her boobs when he hugs her... there is no downfall for short girls... i dont mind them (my g/f is short) sure you have to look down to talk and bend to hug but... it doesnt matter
4) again, a mix of both, to talkitive isnt good cuz they are always talking to their friends and are on the phone 24/7 and when they do talk to you they talk to much and to fast that you get bored... and to quiet isnt good either if you talk to them and they dont talk back... and they quieter ones are usualy shy so, that relates back to question 2 (but quieter shy-er girls usually like to hug more often... just saying, but dont like to go on dates and kiss)
and about hair...
personally i prefer girl with hair just a bit past shoulder length... but i wouldn't not date a girl just because she has short hair... thats just silly... oh, and a word of advice... if you have my favorite lenght hair (a bit past shoulder) then let it loose most of the time... depending on your face... because my girfriend puts double pony tails sometimes and i find she is 10 times hotter when she leaves it loose... that just my opinion though....
and now to go to what i like girls to wear... hmm... well i, personally like spagetthi straps with a small cute sweater on top... or just a spaghetti strap by its self is good... i also like it when they wear earrings and necklaces... but no other peircings in any other body part... skirts with cute shirts are also nice... dresses are good for special occasions like dates and dances...
and i thought id go a step further then what your question asked and tell you what a good date is in my eyes... a good date to me is... hmm... movies are good, at the theatres for brand new ones (dont forget to hint to your guy that you dont mind holding hands during a movie i wanted to hold my girlfriends hand during our last date... but she never left her hand out to her side or on her leg to show me that she might want to hold hands so i didnt go out and reach for her hand cuz she didnt hint that she wanted to hold) and rent older movies and watch them at one of your houses... i think that more romantic ones are better for dates... cuz the girl i think will be more receotive to hugs and arms around the shoulder because of the mood of the movie... and ummm... restauraunt might be good depending on the situation and occasion... but.. if you invite to your house and prepare a picnic lunch together then go to the park and eat it...
oh, heres something else... a girl who likes to be hugged spontaneouly
2007-09-15 05:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mario N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋