She is 34 and i am 22. Sometimes it feels like im tied down and i get freaked out by it and i feel as if im lossing out on alot by dating a woman as old as she is. it feels like she had the time to have her fun and i sacrificed mine for her.
2007-09-15 05:27:33 · 8 answers · asked by skelletor2112 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it was your choice to marry her,she didnt force you( i hope). if you r happy with what u ve got then why search for something else.you believe that is better to date and sleep with a lot of young women instead of having love?you didnt sacrifice for her...you loved her so much that you decided to marry her. maybe you have these thoughts because you started to change feelings for this woman and not because you will miss the "pleasures" of being 22
2007-09-15 05:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by nch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're married, so it's a little too late to have regrets.
You married her for a reason, so don't forget that even when you're feeling tied down and frustrated. You can always suggest that the two of you go out for a night & hit some clubs/bars. Every marriage will always consist of a sacrifice of some kind and yours was time. Talk about this with her and try to reach some kind of agreement.
Good luck & best wishes!
2007-09-15 05:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by mademoiselle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skellitor it was a decision that you made by marrying this woman and so now must live with the consequences. Believe me you'd feel tied down regardless of the age of the female that you married, that's just part of married life. Suggest that you either discuss what you are feeling with your wife or else something might happen that you may regret later. If you married her because you loved her then remember that. If you married her because of her being older and more securely settled in life then perhaps you made a poor choice. Regardless of reason you need to resolve these feelings by talking with you wife and trying to settle things.
2007-09-15 05:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what's your question? Are you two married or just dating? (since you claim both)
That's the choice you made and something you should've considered before saying "I do"...it's also an issue I bring up to any young people that post here about getting married under age 25 or so. You can accept your decision and live with it...or divorce and go back to sowing your oats. Kinda unkewl for her that you didn't think through your decision well enough before you made it, but then she also should've realized this situation was possible. One of several reasons why I don't date 20-somethings.
2007-09-15 05:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. Yea.. you missing out on alot. You took your fantasy a little too far.
2007-09-15 06:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by darmonx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought you are married not dating.So I'm kinda confused. If you are married,chances are you shouldn't be.
2007-09-15 05:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Debby w C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'dating'??? You said you were married. Are you lying to us? Hmmm.
2007-09-15 05:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you feel it's wrong, then get a divorce.
2007-09-15 05:32:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋