Okay, there's this gal that I like and have told her how I felt last year, but she said she just want to be friends. But, some time, she shows more interests, There’s this guy who likes her too and today:
I saw her talking to him along the hallway, perhaps the bowl plan that he and pals had planned. That guy had a 'smiling mask' and she replies his smile too.
It was cancelled though. She once rejected their bowling offer, but they made another try, and I heard that initially, she was doubtful, but somehow one of her friends agreed. But, she was like trying to evade them sometimes. And sometimes she doesn't want to be with them and doesn't want to entertain their conversations. This guy's friend is attempting to help the guy to get her, and hence keeps referring him to 'her b,f." but she always denied. In the past, she used to do such things - talking to him - but it has ceased in these few months. Is it possible that she just sees him as a friend? She is more shy with me though and sometimes show interests, and sometimes teases me, and she's also really kind towards me, helps me a lot. I'm more shy, and can't start a good convo. But the boys always bug her and she doesn't make an attempt to be with him, although she would respond to the conversation he made and replies the smile. But actually he is a jerk pretending to be a nice person. But, the way she talks to him is like rather a bit ermm... I don't know different, a bit insecure or what?
Do I have hopes to be with her? I'm afraid next week he will be even more 'serious' in approaching her! I gotta do something - oh yeah I never asked her out... Does it really mean she likes him?
2007-09-15 05:24:43 · 12 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think You should go for her you never know when you might find someone like her, but if you truly like her You'll chase her and you won't give up cause one day she might really need you and she can always remember that after soo long you stuck by her side and you wouldn't leave until you knew she was alright then maybe she will go after you and will fall in love with you but don't give up chase her stick by her side when she's down cheer her up gifts are always nice but treat her as if she was the only person that had feelings and if she needed you more than anything in the world
Don't give up
Good Luck
2007-09-15 05:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jessi M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to discourage you, but if she told you she just wants to be friend... then she probably just wants to be friends. However, if that was last year, a lot could have changed in that time.
I think you should continue being her friend. Focus more on that and not on trying to get her to like you. Meaning, if you be yourself, you will act more natural and she will like you better then if you are "trying" too hard.
Hang out with her... Ask her to do fun stuff.... Just the two of you... Make her laugh!
All the best relationships start out as friends first! Get comfortable around eachother and she wont be able to deny any feelings that may develop.
2007-09-15 05:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All's fair in love and war and at the moment the other guy is making all the running - even if he is a bit wimpy by getting his friend to be the go-between. (Not a good move on his part.) Get in there quick yourself. Talk to her. Not good at conversation? Ask her about herself. Talk about HER. Show her you are interested in what she does and what she has to say. (Most boys make the mistake of talking about themselves. Yawn.Yawn) THEN ask her out. Good luck.
2007-09-15 05:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by chris n 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes you, maybe she is just playing with you, maybe she hasnt made her mind yet. Been there many times. But luck helps the brave ones. Just ask her to go out for a coffee and talk to her.Tell her that you like her but you are confused. Tell her everything. If she likes you, she will be glad you made the first move. If she doesnt, you will be able to move on after all. If she hasnt made her mind, going out with you will be just the perfect solution for her. Good luck!
2007-09-15 05:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by s_indiangirl15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her out before she is taken by the other guy. The other guy must know he can get her, and you need to get the balls to have the same swagga about getting her. You like and want to be with her then go and get her. Let her know that your feelings are real because now they are just words.
2007-09-15 05:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by SUCess84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tease her, get her laughing, then ask her out. Should take less than 5 minutes next time you see her.
2007-09-15 05:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to suggest you write her a letter, that's very romantic, but then she'll know you're retarded... Just talk to her, keep it light, be her friend like she asked, friends first, if there is something more it'll happen.
2007-09-15 05:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by SolarWind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for whatyou want ask her out. maybe that is what she is waiting for. but you have to understand she might only want to be friends can you except that. but you will never know if you dont go for it. good luck
2007-09-15 05:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by Fran J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree w/ GI...a guy talked to me a few times and was really funny & asked me out ^__^ and i said yes
2007-09-15 05:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by My 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should ask her out
2007-09-15 05:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋