My spouse's uncle (his dad's brother) died recently and I have never met him. My spouse wasn't close to him and he was old (maybe 80ish) when he passed but he says that he was a "good man". My spouse isn't good at writing letters in general. So I would be the one writing a condolence letter to the family and having my spouse sign it. I have writers block on what to say. We won't be going to the funeral because we can't afford it. Spouse's family lives in France and we live in the United States.
Any ideas on what to say? Looking for constructive advice only. Thanks!
2007-09-15 04:00:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Spouse's family don't speak english so we can't find a sympathy card here at Hallmark written in french.
2007-09-15 04:08:43 · update #1
Words are no replacment for the loss of a loved one, but please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
I know uncle Willy lived a good and long life and had the satisfaction of leaving behind a wonderful family.
(and then take it from there)>
Then, I'd follow up with a phone call in a few weeks. I recently lost my mom and i've had relatives touch base with me from time to time and it's has been such a wonderful comfort.
2007-09-15 04:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by Fancy That 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear :
I was so sorry to hear of the death of Uncle . I wish I had known him better and could have spent more time in France, because I have always been told that he was a very good man.
Please give my sincere sympathy to all of the family.
With love,
signed
2007-09-15 04:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say we are sorry for your loss. Send a card if you are really having trouble. Some stores sell cards in different languages.
2007-09-15 04:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋