Ok I love my gf to death, and I would never ever leave her. But is it wrong for me to casually say hey, **** is hot? I mean I think my gf is the most beautiful women on the planet, but I do find other chicks attractive sometimes.... Think it would be ok if I said it?
2007-09-14 23:48:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, just cause you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't read the menu..but usually the menu is not read out loud .... In the case of young love, your gf might not appreciate you saying someone else is hot..... she wants to be your one and only ... and why do you need to say that to her... if she is the jealous type, it will probably cause a fight.... If she is not the jealous type and you feel a need to discuss another woman's beauty, why not ask the gf what she thinks of so and so... then give your views (leaving out the word "hot")... You will find out quickly if she is the type of girl who wants to discuss the beauty of other women with her boyfriend.
2007-09-15 00:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by suisse shoggi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel the need to say anything?
It is perfectly normal to find other women to be attractive, just like a painting, a car, the landscape, etc., but I advise you to keep comments to yourself.
Just imagine if she saw a good looking guy while you two are walking and she said, "wow, he's hot." How would you feel?
I think this is a question of maturity and common sense.
2007-09-14 23:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Larry B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude---a bit of advice from an older chick who's been there, done that. You're better off to simply THINK IT, but don't come out and say it---at least NOT to your g/f. When you're with your buddies, that's another thing---you can all compare who you think is hot or not. This will eliminate a whole lot of fights!
2007-09-15 00:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by sharon w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance told me he thought his female friend was hot and I told him I would rip his balls off after I dug her heart out with a spoon. But hey I'm the jealous type :) I haven't trusted him since
2007-09-14 23:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by ღFreakin Fantasticღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sure tell your girlfriend other girls are hot. Then stand their wondering why she broke up with you.
Duh- you can think it, but you don't need to voice it. That's hurtful. I guarantee you she sees guys that are hotter than you everyday, and she is kind enough to keep it to herself. It's called being an adult.
2007-09-14 23:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by James Watkin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmm. perhaps not when you are in a group of people, i always think it makes partners look small when they comment on how hot another person is. are you ok if she comments on other guys? if she doesn't i guess shes respecting you so bear that in mind before you open your mouth!
2007-09-14 23:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by EM J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can look but not touch you said you love her and never leave her maybe step back for awhile and met new girls see what is out there if you don't like what out there then come back to her.
2007-09-14 23:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is disrespectful to her, other than if it is someone unattainable such as an actor or someone famous. Keep your comments to yourself and your male buddies.
2007-09-14 23:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but i don't see the point in saying it to her - what would it gain, to yourself yes, to friends yes - but to her?
The simple answer is 'does she comment on hot guys to you'?
2007-09-14 23:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by =^. .^= 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are human. Just do not insult her feelings. Good luck
2007-09-14 23:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by Charles Athole M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋