should i send my kids to boot camp?

Question

kids are 4@6 they never listen they are disrespectful,rude and just out of control,ive reached the end i cant handle it anylonger,their father is not a big part of their life for that they hate me spanking no longer is a threat to them theyve began to hit me back is it just my kids that act like this i need help before i lose control complety,,,or lose my last nerve..i feel scared and alone...

Answer 1

Your kids need a good belting. You may be too soft, get impatient and then give in to your kids desires, thereby making them more knowledgeable about how to make you cave.

Tell them NO, NO means No, and asking and hitting back will result in them getting locked in their room for the night.

You have to be cruel to be kind.

Answer 2

OK if you feel that you can not deal with them at this age then what are you going to do when they are 15?
sending them to boot camp might help them but then the hole problem is not changing as there is something in the home now that is not working I think that you need to work that out and then take back control of the kids.
you should get into a parenting course or something to help you find better ways to deal with your kids then threaten them with violence, this is not really the way to go with a lot of kids.
so what do you have around you IE do you have another parent or something that you can talk to and get information form so that they might be able to give you advice?
have you tyred to get any type of parenting course to find new answers, maybe your local health care provider can give you some information on what is around and also child safety or child services would be able to give you some course information also.
just sending them away is not the answer at all while it might help for a short time but if you don't change to then they are just going to get worse so get the help you need and get some support for yourself too

Answer 3

YOU are the parent, take control! They are 4 and 6 just babies who need to be taught right from wrong--BY YOU!

First, enroll in some parenting classes.
Second, get the book, The Strong-willed Child by Dr. James Dobson.
Third, quit making excuses for their behavior.
Fourth, grow up and understand that children are what their parents make them. If you throw them away like so much garbage (and that is what sending them away is) then that is what they will think they are!

Answer 4

you seriously need to do a parenting course while they are young it is easier to change them. Just because you are a single parent is not a reason to let them become a statistic. Look into parenting courses so you learn how to discipline your kids and have the support of those trained and those also going through it.

Answer 5

No. You cannot do this. Try to approach them more. You may send them for a little time, but finally is not a game. Try to ground them for a week or something, or punish them. Talk to them when they feel weird and uncherrished and when they are punished, so that they will see. Don't confuse them by being cruel after and don't burst your nevres into them, no matter how bad you feel. Or, if you cannot resist, apologise them immediately, for God's shake.

Answer 6

You have a 4 and 6 year old that hits you ...? Who is the bigger person here..? YOU ARE.. These kids hit you cause you have not knocked them on there A$$..

Answer 7

i don't think boot camp is where you need to send your kids i think they just need to know whos boss.
look them in the eye and say im your mother and you will do as i say.
if you give up your kid will think they have won *the battle* don't give up and stand strong.
if you ever need to talk just email me
best of luck roxannexx